Mentoring New subs

I can see both sides of the coin with respect to mentors.

My experience was in public and military life, where I mentored very inexperienced adults, peers and people that are way above my pay grad ...

Sun Sep 23, 2018 1:10 am • 39 Replies • 21893 Views

Need to Know

Cognitive Behavior Therapy helps me manage my ptsd. There’s a lot of information about it online.

You are definitely on the right track by choosing the time to deal with the awful things in your ...

Sun Sep 23, 2018 12:43 am • 14 Replies • 7601 Views

Bed Frames to Improve Bondage

If you’re feeling creative, iron pipe, elbows and tees can make for a very sturdy frame. Or find one of the ones made for institutional use back in the first half of the 20th century.

Sat Jun 16, 2018 10:33 pm • 3 Replies • 6685 Views

STRAIGHT or LESBO

I’m not sure of the rationale, I’ve been contacted by all genders. I wish I could find a way to break the ice. I’m open to advice.

I’m not looking to lie or deceive, just trying to learn.

Sat Oct 14, 2017 12:55 am • 19 Replies • 13060 Views

subs don't need "training", Doms do.

I would have to respectfully disagree with your belief that military personnel are somehow inured to obey. As with any other concept or belief, all of us have a basic drive to our concept of leadershi ...

Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:49 pm • 29 Replies • 40979 Views

subs don't need "training", Doms do.

I've enjoyed reading this topic. It has spanned many aspects of my life experience.

The first thing a D needs to know are their own physical and mental limits. An (s) should feel free to state the ...

Wed Sep 06, 2017 2:59 am • 29 Replies • 40979 Views

BBW (Big Beautiful Women) Submissives/Littles

No one has the right to judge you, period.

We as D's do not have the right or obligation to demean your core persona.

That you submit to our wishes, obligated us to hold you up and improve you ...

Tue Sep 05, 2017 11:48 pm • 17 Replies • 17095 Views

Protocol for being titled...

There's no regimen or recognized discipline that teaches one to be Dominant. Pardon the pun.

As with a submissive, this is a characteristic of ones inherent ego.

A pseudo DOM will be squeamish ...

Mon Sep 04, 2017 6:44 am • 14 Replies • 15496 Views