Hair or Bare?

Growing up when I did women had bras of iron, knickers that cut of your blood supply fingering in the pictures, and a totally natural bush ! So I’m easy either way! But what really turns me on is a be ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 10:43 pm • 138 Replies • 37657 Views

Developing feelings

With the depth that BDSM goes into mind body and soul, it’s very easy to be quickly attracted, as the general niceties of a vanilla world hold no place here !!

Sat Aug 08, 2020 9:24 pm • 26 Replies • 6174 Views

How to find a new Sub

May I say with respect if you don’t know tge answers to these fundamental questions you should not be introducing a new sub into the lifestyle!

It may well be that you yourself need to read up on ...

Sat Aug 08, 2020 7:31 pm • 7 Replies • 2273 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

Many moons ago i did the garden for a much older woman must have been at least 40, but think back to a time of formidable women , bras like fortresses, permed hair, stern stares etc etc
At the time ...

Fri Aug 07, 2020 9:38 am • 95 Replies • 27026 Views

A New Tool For Keeping Out The Scammers: "Report User" Feature

Excellent news and a great feature thank you

Fri Aug 07, 2020 12:34 am • 4 Replies • 6175 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

It’s just a random name and changes with the moon

Fri Aug 07, 2020 12:20 am • 267 Replies • 96168 Views

Sessions

Real life is pretty much off the table at the moment far too risky

Online has always been a good option if there is enough of a connection to share the pleasures

Wed Aug 05, 2020 9:50 am • 4 Replies • 1680 Views

Cultural differences

I have little experience of users from other nations ! But to me correcting someone else’s spelling always seems a little pedantic! Yes a correctly spelt and worded message is to be hoped for to avoid ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 12:38 am • 4 Replies • 1518 Views

Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adjust her thinking

You should both take time to write down all of your needs wants desires limits boundaries issues and opportunities etc promise each other brutal honesty !

See what’s changed , then refocus yoursel ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 12:06 pm • 15 Replies • 5804 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Yiffing

Tue Aug 04, 2020 9:07 am • 6668 Replies • 1046072 Views