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Wondering if I am being scammed

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ThinkingBig​(other female)
2 months ago • Sun 28 Oct 2018 01:04:46 AM IST
ThinkingBig​(other female) • Sun 28 Oct 2018 01:04:46 AM IST
You should always meet a person in real life and build a friendship or relationship or something in between and the money thing should be a mutual choice.

You are being scammed, report this user and also google this person's user name with "name here" in google and see if this person has done this before or if this person is on any other sites so admin can be warned.

I am so sorry this has happened to you, always meet and then do limits and if you decide to do play time and what not, make sure you guys check out the place in person and discuss terms and prices and all that.

I hope this helps!
TheDominantOne​(dom male){Not Intere}
2 months ago • Sun 28 Oct 2018 03:02:32 AM IST
TheDominantOne​(dom male){Not Intere} • Sun 28 Oct 2018 03:02:32 AM IST
It's definitely a scam! The dead giveaway was to reserve a dungeon at a website using iTunes gift cards as payment?! No legitimate dungeon works like that!

I'd definitely report it to Evangeline!

Very sorry that you got taken advantage of.

TDO
Meja
1 month ago • Sun 16 Dec 2018 12:32:50 AM IST
Meja • Sun 16 Dec 2018 12:32:50 AM IST
Yes, you have to report this person so noone else gets hurt. I'm so sorry for your loss. It must be awful! I know how you feel. It's one thing to get over money, but heartbreak! Huggies! Don't blame yourself. You really thought you had a connection.
Onlinedomguy​(dom male){SoulKiss84}
1 month ago • Sun 16 Dec 2018 08:18:40 PM IST
Onlinedomguy​(dom male){SoulKiss84} • Sun 16 Dec 2018 08:18:40 PM IST
Yes you are being scammed. Stop sending anything to her, block her, and remember you do not want to start to surrender to someone you do not know enough about. There is findom, but as someone else mentioned, it is not done the way you described.
SirHanz​(dom male)
1 month ago • Mon 17 Dec 2018 02:19:49 AM IST
SirHanz​(dom male) • Mon 17 Dec 2018 02:19:49 AM IST
Sorry to hear about this. And I know that once you have started down the path and want to believe that it is real we blind ourselves to the red flags and warnings. It's good that you posted this and it's good that you question when things dont seem right. Trust is always earned. If they have not done anything to earn it, dont give it to them.
Mace​(dom male)
3 weeks ago • Mon 31 Dec 2018 06:33:32 PM IST
Mace​(dom male) • Mon 31 Dec 2018 06:33:32 PM IST
This is my actual first reply here because it hit home for me but yes I have a general rule about never sending money to anyone. But this brings up something for me that I have struggled with in terms of sending money because my nature is to take care of my sub but then I have that doubt.
I have been fortunate in life and I give freely but sometimes it’s hard to know when your helping or being a human ATM
MacDaddyRicoDom​(dom male)
3 weeks ago • Tue 01 Jan 2019 04:01:07 AM IST
MacDaddyRicoDom​(dom male) • Tue 01 Jan 2019 04:01:07 AM IST
If paid by credit card, immediately call your credit card company and dispute the charge.

Unfortunately, gift cards are money lost.

"Be aware of scams involving App Store & iTunes Gift Cards and Apple Store Gift Cards.

If you believe you're the victim of a scam involving App Store & iTunes Gift Cards or Apple Store Gift Cards, you can call Apple at 800-275-2273 (U.S.) and say "gift cards" when prompted." https://support.apple.com/itunes-gift-card-scams

Yes, you've been scammed and I agree with everyone who said report the profile to admin.

The police, on the other hand, would probably just laugh and hang up on you.

It's a shame, but there are vultures everywhere, working hard to take peoples money, and not just on BDSM sites and other dating websites...EVERYWHERE.