Do true subs males exist anymore? This was asked in sub women for males but I would like to see the

MetalCage​(sub male) • Nov 23, 2019

I'm a guy who is super submissive almost to a fault. However, it's hard to shake the convention that it's supposed to be the man making the woman orgasm during a vanilla sexual encounter, not vice versa. Think about how much talk there is about "lasting longer" or making the woman orgasm multiple times before the man does. I notice that that appears in porn as the male being dominant with the woman, but that doesn't need to be the standard. I do however think that men feel a need to label themselves as a switch because they feel the need to be dominant in some respects because of this convention, instead of being a pure submissive. You can still pleasure a dominant woman just as much as a submissive one.

Allie Kat​(sub trans woman){DarkFox} • Nov 23, 2019

Well i mean, i think so ^.^; i consider myself to be one and from my perspective, it seems harder to find actual male/female Dom/Dommes than anything haha it seems to me that every one from every part of the bdsm community seems to be wondering where their counterpart is ^.^; subs "where are the Dom/Dommes?" Littles "Where are Dayy's/Mommies?" Gay Dom/ F Dommes "where are the good male subs?" Haha i wonder why that is.

MetalCage​(sub male) • Nov 23, 2019

Yikes dude, you should get out more. Go for a long walk or something 😬

IndenturedServitude​(sub male){Under Cons} • Nov 24, 2019

Yes we do. But Domme's do not believe us or do not trust us.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} • Nov 25, 2019

I just wanted to say the post that this comment refers to was removed (it was rather ..hmm nasty! so might of been removed for being against site rules)
The comment quoted isn't in reference to the post above it.

iblocoxforyou​(sub male){...not yet} • Dec 2, 2019

Good day,
It's with some trepidation i offer an answer here on many levels ... #1 - being that im still somewhat new to being "officially" identified a sub male ... #2 - Often ones perception of themselves dont reflect what other may see.

That being said, i truly believe that when i look in a mirror i see a "true sub" even though i consider my service and adoration going beyond the traditional "awaiting the call" type submission ... i find it my goal, responsibility and pleasure to try and take care of the woman in my life in every way - including beyond a physical asset.

sissybitchsub​(sub male) • Dec 2, 2019

True male subs definitely exist. They are just afraid to be known because of the way society looks at them. I think it’s more difficult finding a true woman dom who is just not looking to take advantage of you financially.

MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to} • Dec 2, 2019

I have come across many that will label themselves switch rather than sub to hold back submission and because they can't fully trust and commit to being sub. Also, dealt with one recently that also has trust issues and both of us thought were sub, but upon looking at actions and examining his thoughts closer is really bottom even though enjoys pleasing.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} • Dec 3, 2019

if you find them here report them, it is against the rules here. The staff are wonderful at removing FinDom but every so often some do slip through.

MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to} • Dec 14, 2019

That's because some spoil it for the rest. For example, for me it's easier to use Molly maids service and avoid the hassle of finding a service slave I can trust in my home.