Purple Freesia
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4 years ago •
Feb 7, 2020
Thank for everyone 's insight; certainly has me thinking trying not to over think it of course.
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Bunnie
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4 years ago •
Feb 7, 2020
“Good girl” tells me I have pleased the person I am trying to please. It is a reward. Kind of like a dog treat. Psychologically probably much the same tbh... because it creates a feedback loop... I feel good if I hear that praise, so I will work hard to hear that praise and so on and so on (think Pavlov lol).
However... said by any other person, I personally find it quite repulsive and lose instant respect for the person who has simply thrown it at me so casually. This occurs on a gut level so quickly that I can’t even take the time to think about it. |
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LordofPain56
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4 years ago •
Feb 9, 2020
"Good girl" means praise, appreciation and is intended to encourage further good works. You should be happy and grateful if you have been given praise
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MasterNeil77722(dom male)
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4 years ago •
Feb 10, 2020
I use it to provide a strong positive feedback to my sub. For me it is more intimate and a cut above “well done” or “good job”. When I say it in person, I also give her a physical touch to her more personal part (cup her cheeks, finger lightly touching her lips, etc.) to complete the experience.
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BabyGirlFL(sub female){His}
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4 years ago •
Feb 12, 2020
It’s my favorite thing to hear from him! It makes my heart melt and it makes me strive to be the best I can be at whatever I’m doing that he likes. Fire!
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Dunimos(dom male)
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4 years ago •
Feb 14, 2020
@ ImABadVixen
Good girl! Thank you for sharing the importance of positive reinforcement. |
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LaceCorset(sub female){Not lookin}
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4 years ago •
Feb 16, 2020
Good Girl is the highest praise from my Dom. From anyone els Bunnie wrote: “Good girl” tells me I have pleased the person I am trying to please. It is a reward. Kind of like a dog treat. Psychologically probably much the same tbh... because it creates a feedback loop... I feel good if I hear that praise, so I will work hard to hear that praise and so on and so on (think Pavlov lol).
However... said by any other person, I personally find it quite repulsive and lose instant respect for the person who has simply thrown it at me so casually. This occurs on a gut level so quickly that I can’t even take the time to think about it. Good Girl is the highest praise from my Dom. From anyone else it would be insulting. I get butterflies hearing it from Him and a huge smile. |
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