Question for Dom or Sub, would like both perspectives

IowaDom​(dom male) • Jul 2, 2020

On points 1 - infinity - who cares? The Dom is BS anyway

Final Point - get some kryptonite - you have encountered SUPER DOM!!! hang the krypto on him and run for your life!

skyrich​(dom male){rottenbrat} • Jul 3, 2020

Break it off as soon as possible.

This isn't a Dom. This is a predator. Get away from him, he doesn't deserve you.

I agree with what's already been said, bad BDSM and "drunk and wasted" don't mix.

wildGurl​(sub female) • Jul 5, 2020

To me mental punishment or manipulation is never okay. Getting collared/accepting a collar or doing anything while wasted is a bad idea. Having any kind of sex or interaction under the influence is, since you cannot give consent clear-headed. Period.

Asking these questions already shows you that you do not trust that person. That's all the answer you need!

KnottyBunny • Jul 6, 2020

Its been broken off. Thank you. He is in here too so I hope he does not prey on others.

rottenbrat​(sub female){Skyrich} • Jul 7, 2020

Bottom line,
You can't make someone "ready" just because you want them to be. And anyone who is willing to do something as serious as collar a sub while she is wasted has no understanding of what real responsibility and ownership is. IMO he made a farse out of something that should have been momentous and reverent for the two of them.

DangerouslySafe​(sadist male) • Jul 7, 2020

Well based on the information presented I think there are several problems with this. I could write for hours about several aspects of this scenario. But in short It sounds a very manipulative, weak and dangerous. I respect that there are a lot of dynamics. Some can seem very destructive if you only look at it from certain perspectives. However, I think that any dynamic should provide or satisfy the need that brought each individual to the dynamic. In my experience I don't see how that could happen in this scenario and in fact if it continues down the path it seems to be heading, then it could make it harder for the sub to make the connection she is looking for with a Dom for a long time if ever...

MasterTrainerT • Jul 7, 2020

One of our established rules. Is no more than two drinks. Should an occasion arise like a party or wedding were more intake might happen we "pause" play with the exception of our specific safety rules. The main one is if sub feels the alchohol at all she is to 1. Never leave my eyesight. 2. Be escorted by me if moving to new area of the gathering. 3. Remain respectful.

As a Dom I feel that her protection is paramount. What is described by OP in my opinion is unhealthy and the sub should seek shelter

Luscious sub​(sub female) • Jul 7, 2020

As a sub I would think he is not good enough for me. When a Dom pouts and tries to have their way and ignores my limits I no longer respect he nor will I submit to him

KnottyBunny • Aug 11, 2020

his name on here is konvikdomination. Watch out for him. He uses the lifestyle to hide behind. He is an abuser.

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) • Aug 11, 2020

Narcissistic behaviour walk away it will only get worse !!