dom class

MisterWolf​(dom male) • Feb 27, 2021

Hello,

I applaud you asking the question and agree with what others have written. I would not discount YouTube as there are a lot of good advise on that sight from what it means to be a good Dom to how to use a flogger.

Being a Dom is not just the physical. It is about being a quality person, honest, loyal, nurturing, caring, communicative and about really caring about your submissive helping her be the best version of herself. As I have researched and developed I have come across many sites......I list them below and hope they are of help to you on your journey

Getting to understand yourself better
https://bdsmtest.​org/

Safe, Sane, Consensual: A code to live by
http://dominantguide.​com/encyclopedia/safe-sane-and-consensual/

http://www.​submissiveguide.​com/2016/03/why-ssc-and-rack-are-both-important-safety-acronyms-to-know/

Dominant vs Domineering: Understanding and spotting the differences.
http://dominantguide.​com/4460/dominant-versus-domineering/

Safewords:
http://dominantguide.​com/encyclopedia/safeword/
http://www.​submissiveguide.​com/2014/05/safe-words-for-safe-play/

Red Flags, fakes and how to spot them:
http://www.​submissiveguide.​com/2016/03/how-to-tell-when-that-online-training-dom-is-a-wolf-in-sheeps-clothing/

http://www.​submissiveguide.​com/2011/12/deceptive-submissive-the-flip-side-of-the-predator-dominant/

Newbie Links8

BDSM Role Info:
http://dominantguide.​com/870/what-kind-of-dominant-are-you/
https://bdsmtest.​org/
http://asibdsm.​com/the-wheel-of-roles/

Negotiations:

https://www.​kinkly.​com/2/1194/sex-tips/bdsm/the-basics-of-bdsm-negotation

http://www.​evilmonk.​org/a/docs/chklst.​doc

Safewords:
http://bdsm-sexperts.​blogspot.​com/2008/11/safewords-for-doms-because-doms-are.​html?m=1

BDSM Resource Guides:

www.​asibdsm.​com
www.​dominantguide.​com
www.​submissiveguide.​com
www.​bdsmwiki.​info
www.​ddlginfo.​com

Newbie ~> 5 Tips For Practicing Intentional Aftercare - https://www.kinkly.com/5-tips-for-practicing-intentional-aftercare/2/18583

http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/submission_control.html

Flynn Monke • Feb 27, 2021

thanks everyone for the insight. really thankful i found this website.

ThatsSirTou​(dom male) • Feb 27, 2021

All the resources are great, but be true to yourself first!