Hi everyone! I’m so glad I found this site!! I don’t have really any IRL friends or family I can talk to about this lifestyle, so it’s nice finding a place where I belong.
I’ve been with my partner for coming up on 4 years, and we’ve known each other since elementary school (over 20 years). We’ve been so passionately in love and never really struggled in our sex life, but in everyday life we had many struggles. About a week ago the topic of a BDSM lifestyle came up and my partner told me she used to be a Domme years ago before we were even romantic. This awakened my needs I’ve had for so long, and I admitted to Her I’ve been dying to live out my submissive side with someone I trust, and She 100% is the one I trust the most. So from there we sat down and She had me write out our dynamic and sign it together, and our D/s lifestyle officially began on St Patrick’s day this year (2021)!! Talk about luck!!
In just this first week alone, our relationship has improved in ways we couldn’t have imagined!! And my self worth and abilities have greatly improved! I feel so much more fulfilled than ever, and she feels so honored and loved. We’ve never been happier and it can only get better from here!
Happy to be a part of this community!