Nylons, Pantyhose, and Stockings... Oh My

Nylons, Pantyhose, and Stockings... Oh My

CuckoldforNylons​(masochist male){Not Yet} • Mar 26, 2021

I think I must be the only man still alive today with an insatiable fetish for nylons, pantyhose, stockings and high heels. Infact, it is this fetish that drives all of my other fetishes and submissive fantasies. I love the smell of dirty nylon feet after a long day in a pair of high heel boots or stiletto pumps or perfumed nylons just before a play session.

Sadly, as of late, sit seems no one else enjoys this fetish and finding a partner of the opposite sex willing to indulge this fetish seem frantically impossible. What does a Leg Lover like me do?

Has anyone else experience this dilemma?

acquiesced​(sub male) • Mar 26, 2021

It's a different world today. I take it from your picture that you grew up in the post-war, baby boomer 50's or 60's like me. There were Sears catalogs in every house, pencil skirts, patent leather pumps, corsets, and so on. These were the impressionable years for us and you can never shake it. Today, 'fem-fatal' is largely (not exclusively) relegated to a porn category, or on-stage costumes. Where the world used to be divided into only a few sexual themes, the pie slices today are getting smaller and smaller.

Although it's a rare occurrence, the occasional glance from a woman dressed as such, even if for a millisecond, makes my knees weak.

yourbootsownme​(sub male) • Mar 26, 2021

In general, I think most partners would regard that as an un-intrusive fetish, and in a mutually satisfactory relationship they would be willing to oblige by wearing them for you. But as with anything, it's all about moderation. Unless you find a partner who is particularly into wearing them, they're going to get turned off or find it a chore to accommodate this fetish for you if that is your primary source of arousal, one that you ask for all the time. And, listing yourself as a submissive, they are likely to want to drive the scene in the direction THEY find most arousing.

So if this is a necessary part of play for you, you will certainly need to find a partner who finds it equally arousing. That, or pay for play.

RedKat{Not now } • Mar 26, 2021

I have nylons and garter belt, along with pumps waiting on the right one....

CSI • Mar 27, 2021

There are plenty of ladies who enjoy all of the above. However, I felt the need to comment because you used the term "frantically impossible". What sort of head space are you in while searching? Do you know what you are looking for and what most Dommes are looking for? What do you have to offer? Just some things to think about.

Kelpi • Mar 27, 2021

Yes it is not easy when you see a great set of legs and you get to know them only to find out she does not wear stocking at all. It has been many years since I have had a pair of legs wrapped in stocking across my back or anywhere else near me. As with all things they will come back but by then I will be to old to care.

CuckoldforNylons​(masochist male){Not Yet} • Mar 27, 2021

Yes, you are right. Perhaps I am searching for the wrong thing. As much as I adore nylons and heels, that is not ultimately what I seek. What a seek is a connection, a relationship. I want to service and please a Mistress and let her take control, but not just blindly or absently. I need to know that she understands my fetishes even if she is the one to decide when and how they will be used. To be honest, I'm not to entirely sure of what I need right now, except for the fact that I am lonely, isolated, no family and maybe a little too desperate for affection that I gave accidently objectified women as goddesses to simply worship. Frantically Impossible I said. Until you pointed that out, I never realized just how frantic I had become.

There are two things that scare me right now:
1. I'm getting to old for anyone to want to play BDSM games with
2. I'm going to alone the rest of my life

But, how can I expect anyone to want me if I don't even know fully what I want?

CSI • Mar 27, 2021

You are never too old. That is a fact. Although I wouldn't consider BDSM a game. You may or may not be alone for the rest of your life. The best thing you can do is to love yourself. Look within to see who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer another. There are hundreds of males who identify as submissives who just want the Dommes to be kink dispensers and to be solely there to fulfill their sexual fantasies. That is not a power exchange relationship and doesn't sound like what you are looking for. Find what you have to offer rather than what you want them to do for you. Be centred, be happy, and breathe. Vet, take your time, and you will find your person.

CuckoldforNylons​(masochist male){Not Yet} • Mar 27, 2021

Thank you!

Susie Q{Daddy Ant} • Mar 27, 2021

Stuff of dreams....stockings with seams, garter belts and corsets....crinolines, skirts.....upswept hair and red lipstick. Betty Paige. No stilettos for me but I do love the high heel t-straps and Mary Janes.

Finding what you like is easy. Finding who you like is harder. You don’t need to settle but sometimes our expectations are too high for every day people.

I find the things I need absolutely and forget the rest, it’s window dressing. Lower expectations of things and higher expectations of the immaterial...mental and emotional.

Just a thought....