Curiousmind(sub female){Owned}
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3 years ago •
May 16, 2021
3 years ago •
May 16, 2021
To me personally the human connection is paramount.
I live relationships by heart. I don’t play submission, i live submission. If we talk specifically about d/s dynamics, the right fit for me is determined first of all by the level of soul connection. I need to feel person’s heart, how genuine he is, how affectionate he is towards me. There should be an alignment in mutual kinks/desires/needs but it’s not a decisive factor for me. I can’t play, I can’t submit pure on the fact someone can meet and satisfy my kinks because i know such relationship won’t last long and i am not interested to give my mind/body/soul for instant gratification because it feels empty to me.
With the right person even if our kinks don’t align completely, having that deep soul connection would make me feel comfortable and willing to stretch my limits/boundaries...not just willing but being curious about it and keen to explore the unknown. I am a risk taker in life and have an adventurous mindset so that helps.
From having deep soul connection the trust and feeling safe components get birthed and when that’s established the journey together always feels fulfilling and satisfying despite unavoidable mishaps, misunderstandings that can happen from time to time. When the foundation is right, trying new things with the right person always feels organic even when you realise those things are not for you in the end , the exploration, the journey doesn’t detriments as such but feels enriching and meaningful...the genuine desire to make another person happy because you know deep in your heart that person has the same attitude towards you and only wants the best for you, for you to feel happy and fulfilled.
That’s organic, that’s genuine, that’s beautiful equilibrium
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