House Talion(dom male)
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3 years ago •
Jan 10, 2021
As 'bitch' is usually associated with subs I'd expect such would only be considered by a Domme if they specifies themselves to be addressed as such. Anything else is just disrespectful
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MstressWhipplash(dom female)
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3 years ago •
Apr 2, 2021
There are all sorts on the internet.
Inexperienced guy Troll guy. Fetish dispenser guy. None of the above get my time. Mistress Whipplash Ma'am |
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Eagles Nest
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3 years ago •
Apr 3, 2021
Would not get anywhere with this Dominant....
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acquiesced(sub male)
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3 years ago •
Apr 3, 2021
Would not ever approach a Domme that way....
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MstressWhipplash(dom female)
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3 years ago •
May 21, 2021
Sounds like he wanted a porn stereotype and I would ignore him as I am a human being who happens to be a Dominant Woman and BDSM Mistress in my romantic and service oriented relationships with Slave men.
Mistress Whipplash Ma'am |
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redcutie(dom trans woman)
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3 years ago •
May 23, 2021
Hello,
Here are my thoughts: 1. Being called a „Dominant Bitch“ is not an appropriate way to address any dominant even when I knew the guy. 2. People talking like that are not always intentionally disrespectful. Often they trying to live out their fantasies the first and do not know how to behave. I would not flip off on him but explain that such a way of behaving is very inappropriate especially in front of a dominant. 3. In practical terms I usually do not engage with guys like that even if they dont mean to be disrespectful. I expect from people, even if they are newbies, to have some basic form of mannerism or at least learn from other how to behave. |
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| Closetedfreak |
3 years ago •
Aug 17, 2021
I suspect his intent, however misguided, was to send the message of the type of Domme he seeks. Some are fun and playful and others are no nonsense and rougher.
The partner he seeks may wear this title like a badge of honor. Doesn't sound like a high percentage play to me. |
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SageFlame(sub female)
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3 years ago •
Aug 17, 2021
If it rubbed you the wrong way, it doesn't matter who said it or in what context.
If it were I, it would be an indication not to engage. It isn't what I am looking for as far as the beginning/foundation of a connection. But that is me. "To each his own." >>>This! >>>Former comments have pointed out that he may have come from a mindset or perspective that could vary from our own. I am excited about this! Empathy is not a word often thought of in relation to BDSM. Yet we are dealing with human beings. Our biology and social constructs need empathy in the mix for us to flourish. When I read accounts of long standing, fulfilled partners they have a healthy dose of respect and empathy in their foundation. The image of kink, D/s, and BDSM and all that jazz is slowly broadening. Your question and the answers are helping this happen. Cool Beans! |
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Miki(masochist female)
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3 years ago •
Aug 18, 2021
I already posted to this thread but should have emphasized "Wholly inappropriate"-- for either unless specifically permitted, but I can hardly envision any domme putting up with that.
The guy is a tool, move on. |
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| itsallaboutyou |
2 years ago •
Nov 30, 2021
I am new to this but I don't get it. To me being a sub, I am, automatically would mean RESPECT for the dom!! My attitude would be totally against bitch. A dom should be above ALL petty things like that. Again I am new to all this so please excuse my lack of intimate knowledge. Again the one reason for becoming a sub is to me RESPECT AND AWE of the dom and their gender!
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