*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Bored Nightingale • Mar 21, 2022

Sup. I'm new here, but not to BDSM stuff. Hoping I'll find a sub who I can have fun with that'll also work with my current life situation.

Forge​(dom male) • Mar 21, 2022

New here too. I’ve been around for a very long time though, mostly on another site for the last few years. Looking forward to the fun

tessa belle​(dom female) • Mar 22, 2022

hello, im tessa. im new to bdsm and looking to learn and observe not looking for any roleplay/relationships/etc !!

Villanelle​(staff) • Mar 24, 2022

Thank you for all of the intros! Welcome to THE CAGE.

getwildandsexy​(sub female) • Mar 24, 2022

Hi, my name is Kiki I'm a bit of an airhead so bear with me haha. I currently have no idea what I'm looking for, I'm new to DS and willing to know more. <3

Hey everyone it's my first day

Silvertail • Mar 25, 2022

My first day so I'm new as new can get.Im 19 years old and a total softie sometimes.Im from the Caribbean, Im actually really talkative thou I tend to shy away when I'm ready and I'm a bit on the straightforward side.When it comes to Bdsm I am new to it all but I have a clue on what I like.Im here seeking knowledge and a caring dom/master to mentor and cherish me.Some of my kinks are choking,degrading,humiliation, a little harm and public interactions.Some of my hobbies are reading,dancing and going out.

elitig • Mar 25, 2022

Hello, I'm new. I used to play with my wife as her toy until 6 years ago.
I have kept to myself since then however decided this was the year I was going to try and make some friends. Started the year on dating sites , and that was just a bunch of people looking for hand outs or online only. One person rudely said for find a cage and crawl in . I actually google the word and found this community.
I've read a few things here already and I feel encouraged that I may be able to make a friend or two and learn a lot.
looks like that rude persons advice paid off.

alwaystruly​(sub female) • Mar 25, 2022

Hello everyone, I am new here and was recommended by someone to search here with a better chance of finding what I am looking for.

I am new to the Dom/Sub/BDSM world, but not uneducated. I have always been interested in this lifestyle but have never been able to have the chance to pursue it until now and would still need training. I am a sub that is looking to give my entire mind, body, and soul to someone. For them to be the centre of my life and to give them everything. I am communicative, honest, and straightforward.

I need someone that needs to fully control me, a total power exchange dynamic that is long-term, and monogamous. That is protective and possessive of his sub among many other things, loyalty, commitment, and devotion are things that many can’t truly give in this world, but I can and I will for the right Dom.

I hope that was a good first introduction, if you want to see if we are compatible or are interested, please reach out to me.

curiousatfourD • Mar 25, 2022

Hello new world! I am new to the Cage, new to the lifestyle and new to dating ( online or off). I turn 40 this year so I am guessing the next 40 years will be at least as interesting as the last.

I have been a serial monogamist and only had 3 relationships in the last 24 years, 17 of that is with my wife. We have grown as a couple and as individuals and she has found the comfort and safe space to do her own personal introspection that has lead to her realizing that she is lesbian.

Being in a committed relationship and not the type to stray or want to, I have little experience but varied interests. My situation being what it is now allows me to go out and seek the physical intimacy I want and need, explore dating, and live a different life than I have lead. I'm pushing my comfort zones and learning a lot, but my very novice experience level leaves me open to getting"taken" or "had", so I am hoping to use this site as a way to work through what I am doing and get an outside third party perspective, so I don't get royally taken advantage of.

The amount of knowledge and information on here coupled with the overall feeling of care and support is very refreshing. Having been on the online dating sites for a bit, I was starting to think I should just move to the bush somewhere and become a hermit.

Squishwitch​(switch female) • Mar 27, 2022

Hi! I'm new here and relatively new to the scene in general. A few years ago my husband and I decided to start trying new things in the bedroom, and I was so sure I knew what was into. Boy was I wrong! I have learned so much about myself, and now I know there are a LOT more things I am into. I identify as a Switch, probably running about 70/30 D/s, and at present I know I like impact play, breath play, orgasm denial, rope play, some mild cbt, and hearing him beg. 😏 Obviously a couple of those are only giving since I lack the correct bits, but most of those we both enjoy giving and receiving! Luckily he switches, too so we both get our fix! We are monogamous for now, I would like to explore beyond that someday but we aren't there yet. And that's okay, he's my best friend and we are very happy!

I'm really here so I can learn more about kink in general, things I might want to try, and maybe make some friends along the way. I am pretty easygoing and maybe a little shy at first, but once I feel comfortable around someone I am basically an open book! So hopefully I will see you around and learn something new!