I'mME
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2 years ago •
May 16, 2022
Me too.....
KinkAnarchyMaster wrote: I masturbate from time to time. Though it does provide temporary relief, it some times leaves me frustrated for interaction with an actual woman.
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I'mME
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2 years ago •
May 16, 2022
I agree with you about masturbation, staying on the edge, tipping point [I threw that one in there], no orgasms, denial, how it affects people, can it cause issues,
it's definitely a topic for another separate conversation. Would you like to post a starter or should I. acquiesced wrote: NCaraway, regarding #3, do some research on the effects of Prolactin on males after ejaculation. A prolactin release destroys the Dopamine (the happy chemicals that you experience) and begins the refractory period (time to get aroused and hard again). Interesting stuff. Quite powerful if you ask me (Doms/Dommes take note). You may think it's BS until you start to correlate it with your own experiences. This could be a whole 'nuther topic for discussion.
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SweetSirRendering(sub female)
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2 years ago •
May 21, 2022
i know this was an old thread, but i spotted it and had to share a semi recent conversation i had on this subject. vanilla people are not my kink and that’s okay. 😅
here is a response as to why a male vanilla i know doesn’t masturbate and doesn’t watch porn. i chose not to delve deeper into the subject after this was said… *i do not agree with the following message as i find masturbation healthy, obviously, anything in excess can be an issue. that being said, i will not disagree with or invalidate another person’s views. “Semen contains the same fluid and elements that are in our brains. When a man ejaculates it's like vital male energy held within. Repeated exposure and high frequency masturbation, at least for dudes, is definitely not good. That's how you get coom brained. Dopamine desensitization all sorts of stuff.” ~a vanilla friend 😐 |
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Mister Anderson(dom male)
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2 years ago •
May 23, 2022
Our vital essence!
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Dom Pinnacle(dom male)
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2 years ago •
Jun 6, 2022
I stroke his ego a couple times a week at 48. If I'm busy I may skip a week or two. From the moment boys realize the incredible feeling down there, we develop the forearm and hand strength of Hercules. It's just a massage after all, people.
Even priests are wrestling with the bad boy below. And he ain't the devil. Of course, they are doing much more unspeakable things than that. When women tell me they NEVER let their fingers or toy play in the sweetest of all puddles, I go in the opposite direction. That just ain't right. |
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fifteen annakitten(sub female)
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2 years ago •
Jun 7, 2022
I had a Dom in his early 60s, he could cum 3, 4, 5 times a session. He would intentionally not masterbate for as long as he could before seeing me. But in the beginning of our relationship he implied he didn't ever masterbate at all. That was a lie and as I got to know him better he admitted "well...sometimes". Knowing him, I think maybe he thought it made him less "manly"??? I don't know, I didn't push him on it bc he was obviously not comfortable with the topic and felt him admitting to that tiny bit was a significant thing to him.
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Mister Anderson(dom male)
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2 years ago •
Jun 8, 2022
Bunnie wrote: Ummm, ok. Does that mean that all females actually truly secretly love giving blow jobs and receiving anal, and if they say they don’t, they’re lying? I don't suppose there is any chance the answer is yes? |
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Spellbound Wytch{Mr. Parker}
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2 years ago •
Jun 8, 2022
Mister Anderson wrote: I don't suppose there is any chance the answer is yes? Do you actually care? It's my experience that dominants and submissives alike prefer to perpetuate the fallacy of "she likes whatever you give her".
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Dom Pinnacle(dom male)
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2 years ago •
Jun 8, 2022
Mister Anderson wrote: Bunnie wrote: Ummm, ok. Does that mean that all females actually truly secretly love giving blow jobs and receiving anal, and if they say they don’t, they’re lying? I don't suppose there is any chance the answer is yes? LoL you know damn well the answer is NOT yes. Nice try though. Gave me a nice chuckle. |
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corruptedgirl(sub female)
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2 years ago •
Jun 9, 2022
Ok I'm cackling at all the euphemisms for masturbating hahaha.
Also I don't know if it's been said (the comments are 10 pages long and climbing) but there is a small category of people (males included) who are asexual. I will note that asexuality is an umbrella term and there are some people in that group who do still give themselves happy endings, but there's a group who experience no sexual desire at all and so it's likely they rarely, if ever, do the nasty with themselves. Just a thought I had considering its Pride Month and the A in LGBTQIA+ deserves some attention too haha. |
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