I'm Enough wrote:
First a BIG thank you for everyone who as provided their insight.
I am again reassured, that while I may at times be rude (who isn't), those who call me rude, or anything else for that matter because I don't give them what I haven't consented to is a really BIG red flag.
If I find myself being continually called rude, then I am not the right person them.
Hi,
I'm no expert on D/s, but I have experience a plenty in chatting with self-proclaimed Doms and Masters.
I have not looked at your profile, some write a book, some don't. There are profiles that clearly tell me who someone is. One learns to read between the lines.
Some advice, before chatting w/ anyone on any platform, flip to that profile and take the time to read it. I mean notice everything, if possible read their answers on questions.
It is not a foolproof method of getting a sense of whom you are dealing with, but I venture to say 60%-70% will give you clues.
About you being rude, I have no idea. I have read all kinds of things about myself that I had no inkling of [humor]. Imagine not knowing I was a cum dump, can you imagine not knowing that one self.
You are under no obligation to read anything about yourself from a complete stranger.
We are all different, come from different corners and what one person sees as rude, maybe another sees, oh she's not being rude, just giving information......
Good luck, never lose sight of who you are.