I'mME
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3 years ago •
Sep 18, 2022
3 years ago •
Sep 18, 2022
► SirsBabyDoll wrote: ► I'mME wrote: ► SirsBabyDoll wrote: ► I'mME wrote: ► balloonkotinsp wrote: I personally feel that a woman not swallowing is a form of rejection. To me it just is. But, since I enjoy eating ass, and if she were a squirter,I'd put in in a glass and gulp it down, I think fair is fair. That's just me. What fun is knock out dirty bangin, without some wetstuff in there. I have always maintained a "no cum dodging" policy. In traditional, or vanilla relationships, it's hard to discuss that early on. Without a slap. Which is why we love it here. I say swallow hard or wear it proudly.
balloonkotinsp,
To feel that it is a rejection is to create chaos. Are they doing all other things possible to please you, pretty much subs desire to please the one that they give submission to.
''You have always maintained a no cum dodging policy''
When do you discuss that with your potential sub?
''In traditional, or vanilla relationships, it's hard to discuss that early on.''
''Without a slap. Which is why we love it here. I say swallow hard or wear it proudly.''
What, did considering yourself dominant, give you the gift of communication ? That is what you are describing, communication, when 2 people sit down one speaks, the other actively listens [Bing it], then the other repeats back in their own words what they heard.
It's a possibility you may be surprised to realize that what you say is not what people hear.
It takes time and ongoing commitment to communicate.
I'm not even sure how you meant the second part of that statement.
You like being dominant so that you can slap whomever is sucking your cock, I'd they don't swallow your cum?
You would have slapped your partner in vanilla relationship if you could have gotten away with it?
Because you will take it personally if a your cum is not swallowed , you enjoy being able to slap the person who sucks your cock?
I could go on with these questions but it would be better if you could please clarify your last paragraph.
I think he meant "without getting a slap"...meaning that he finds it hard to discuss that policy in a vanilla relationship without HIM getting slapped across the face. See how the previous sentence kinda cuts off? Then the sentence continues with a missing word and then he states that this is the reason why he loves it here?
Sometimes, a person just has fat fingers when they are typing.
SirsBabyDoll,
Lol I understand fingers getting in their own way. I presently do all my social platforms from my phone. Sometimes when I don't proofread and sometimes when I do, lol, later I reread and kick myself.
No, just eyeball roll myself....
I read it several times, and I'm still not sure. Because of the sentence, swallow hard or wear it.
It was at the end of the vanilla sentence, so it's what I added the final paragraph .
Are you his sub?
Nope, I'm not.
It's his kink and it's allowed. Personally, I agree with his statement that it feels like a rejection. It's HIS feelings and his feelings are valid.
Personally, I love swallowing and NOT swallowing feels like a waste to me.
But if to him, it feels.like a rejection when a woman doesn't swallow, then it does. Period.
Okay, I see your tone had changed. I never said it was NOT okay for him to feel rejection. Please don't ad lib for me or summarize what you think meant. My words are right there in black and white, they mean no more than what is written and no less what is written.
This is a forum where it is acceptable to ask questions, to learn where people are coming from.
Just like you gave me your opinion on what you thought he meant.
I appreciate you giving your perspective on it, but to come back with that post tells us doing exactly 1hatnypu are trying to accuse me of doing.
I do not play word games. I also do not baby adults when in forums, or actually I just don't baby people period.
Nonya
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