Where do our desires stem from?
3 months ago • Oct 25, 2022
Lookingtoserveher • Oct 25, 2022
I've often wondered what it is that triggers these desires in us? Is it nature that just instills this within us to behave and seek certain behaviors? Is it environmental? Is it conditioning? I imagine realistically it's some combination of all three.
I was a bit vanilla for most of my life, and while I didn't really pursue anything related to BDSM I didn't really shy away from any ideas, either. I've always wanted to explore what makes us tick and sort of that inner working in all of us. For myself, I realized a bit later, in my 30s, that I DID feel more submissive and it's been an interesting change in how I think and approach situations (At least, outside of the professional world)
Curious what other's have to say or think about this. Was there a particular moment or event that caused you to feel a certain way?