Wife Wants To Be A Slave - Help!

Wife Wants To Be A Slave - Help!

kallykally • Sep 10, 2023

Wife of 6 years has recently confided in me that their biggest fantasy is to be used as a sex slave, where her only purpose is to be used for sex. Though I’ve seen this in porn before, I wondered if people had any advice? It seems she wants this to be longer than just the period of time for having sex but doesn’t want to give me any pointers as it’ll take her out of the fantasy. Can’t be fully dominated if you know the twists and turns of the road.

I’ve always liked being dominated, so the shoe being on the other foot is new but something I’m more than happy to do, we have a fantastic sex life, and I’d love nothing more to fulfil her fantasy.

TIA

Kal

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Sep 10, 2023

You all are biting off more than you can chew. Full time "sex only" slaves are something of porn and never really works out in real life. Frankly, it is a lazy way to try out the lifestyle. You two need to talk more and think about what you are doing. Go visit Fluffypoppet's blog and take a look at the books she has some listed for first timers. Sit down and read though them and understand what is expected from either side of the collar.

Doing a gangbang is not being a sex slave. If she likes gangbangs, then go ahead.

Bottomworld007 • Sep 10, 2023

She needs it give it to her and she will be a new lady to you . It works

TwoRingsOneChain • Sep 10, 2023

Kal
I think taking control from her would be a smarter path. If you just allow her to follow what she wants, then she will lose interest in you altogether.
Sure, tie her up, but go a little further, use a blindfold, taunt her, edge her, have her begging. Let her know, she may be a sex slave, but you are in control of the situation, and in control of when she is allowed to cum.

Do not be afraid to experiment with different sensations, all bd 101 stuff. Ice, or something with texture rubber across the skin. Just don't do it all at once, in one session. You have the rest of your lives to play.

Talk with her the next day. Get some feedback. Go do some reading, plenty of info here in the Cage, as well as a wealth of knowledge from serious Doms..

Have Fun. two rings

Satindragon • Sep 10, 2023

Please, take the advice of TopekaDom. You both need to read and educate yourselves. If you don’t you could possibly ruin your marriage.

This lifestyle is not one long running sex scene. Even in a Master/slave relationship that is lived 24/7 is filled with vanilla task. Kids have to eat, bills to be paid and the trash taken out. You both need clear communication of what her needs are and how that would effect your daily life. To be a slave you relinquish all your being to your partner. Total power exchange. You take that responsibility. You make all the decisions in the best interest of the dynamic.

Things like this don’t happen overnight. Take your time