Jeeze

Kelpi • Nov 23, 2024

Why is it the older I get the dumber the young ones get? What ever happened to ,,.... not long term but for life. I see so many women that once they are married they start to build a getaway fund. You see so many women screaming how a man needs to make 6 figures have a 6 pack and be over 6 feet. Oh and have at least 10" hanging. BUT wait there's more. If a guy finds someone overseas to be his wife then she is nothing more than slave and he is trash for not having a "American" wife (yes I cleaned the last part up).

I am 62 and retired now. I have had time to look back and think about why most of my life I have spent alone, The answer was simple I am a loner and this is how it was meant to be for me. I can honestly say that while I have not been the Dom I always wanted to be but I have been good to my subs and they are still with me in my heart. I have let each know as they left they have but to call and I am there but just as long enough to do what was needed.

So why do "men" today not know how to be men???? Is it women changed them by wanting them to feel their softer side? A Dom knows when and where to be soft. Add the fact more boys don't have a male figure to show them what being a man is like. So please let me know how is a guy (because true men already know) how do we get back to where we were. Men being men women knowing that they needed men even if they hated them.

Maybe we try something new you live your life and stop telling me how I should live mine. That way men can be men and get back to making the women who want them happy again. Why can't a man just be a man without a bunch of bitches telling him how wrong he is?

dollMaker​(dom male) • Nov 24, 2024

When men were men, and women were property, didn't have the vote, slaves in the kitchen, slaves in the bedroom when husbands could legally rape them, steal any wealth, beat them, kill them and no one gave a damn?

Toxic masculinity alive and well, no desire to improve, no desire to evolve, to listen to those who's lives are impacted by the often poor, misogynistic, mind set, they encounter daily. You call those who might have pearls of wisdom to share 'bitches' women who step up to share how men, and toxic masculinity effects them.

Closed mind much, seemingly hate filled mind - of the Andrew Tate, Mark Driscoll school. I for one am glad that more men are trying to improve themselves, and learn how they impact people, the world around them. These men are men, just men who have opened their minds and hearts to be more than men have been in the past, which frankly isn't anything to shout about.

I for one am glad I am in the twenty first century, and not the 1950s.....

Steellover​(sub male) • Nov 24, 2024

^Oh behalf of all men, and all men who are trying to be better men and better people... THANK you.

I do think young men need good father figures and male role models to follow. I feel fortunate to have had one. Dad and I didn't always see eye to eye on things, and communication wasn't his strength, but he certainly tried his best.

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Nov 24, 2024

Topeka absolutely crushed this thread.

Ingénue{VK} • Nov 24, 2024

Fake Doms are almost preferable to yapping virtue signalling "Real" Doms.

Both thrive on the same drama.

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Nov 25, 2024

Fake doms are bottom feeders at worst, idiots at best. You want a bit of kinky sex with a willing partner, be honest about your intentions. Plenty of people want the kink without the ds power exchange...

Yappy virtue signalling doms... This made me laugh. If they are writing essays to lure, I agree. Those that counter less savoury posts, focusing on real life and consent, I don't agree. That voice is important, particularly to the inexperienced submissive.

And I'm not sure about drama 🤔. That for me is the heated disagreements that happen in here... You know, the ones where TD brings his own popcorn..... 😁

Ingénue{VK} • Nov 25, 2024

I'm laughing. Careful now or I'll resurrect that tedious Forum Fightclub thread I was stupid enough to start a year ago.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Nov 30, 2024

Kick to the curve alvesta baby

They come and go but weed them out does mean you're marrying them tonight, wishing them well or no words at all. They must be talking to the wrong person or they need help.

Ya the fake it D never works they get turned down too many times or they put themself in their own trap they have to be willing to study and master themself first to grow and love themself to make room for another. You come off saying I am a D and I am Strict one really knows ones cares. Want to get people to talk, be yourself the fake D is douche go buy a douche and douche yourself. Fake to make it only get your self as being embarrassed at yourself you did that in real get self kicked out of place people don't like liars won't get you any were in life only jail.

No is still a No. if you they can;t stop a block on the plant dive in on block list.


People profile and boundaries their rules do apply once broken can never again. You don't have respect for others then you better go check yourself.

Not a job to please anyone just because women are here does mean men are the Gods sorry to blow to you but No women is a walking sex use your hand you will be forever alone. Respecting yourself sex is not everything on the mind, just a goodbye block. No value. Have a nice life. Just here to get your dick wet on the wrong site.

Sometimes it takes the right person to wake someone up til they see growth but if it's too late they see something they all-way's wanted they gotta shape up find it someone else the very person won't put up with the bull.


Desperation is dull. They call themselves a D or feel they know they want to be with you but not willing to take the time to respect you. It's a loss on that one. Not what people say they show shows up as one with respect.

Everyone wants someone but men and women have to stop being mad at each other, stop saying their no one makes peace with that and make peace with yourself cause you're both in this boat together.

The no pictures of profile but make to look like they are something but when comes to the picture sharing and talking they don't act or look like anything why not good to lie really loses interest people will not comment back. So don't lie, be honest.

Knowing one can force a connection on someone knows one can force a conversation. They call you sis , or their sub right nothing to to continue.

Asking stupid question that mean know meaning they should just go be reporter of the street a time waste in the lifestyle go have their vanilla cake and eat it to.

They wanna hear your voice right away. You have some manners the way you want to be treated or you will get crap on a plate you get what you are served as the reflection of self.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Nov 30, 2024

Lets make peace with this rewrite things We been itchy but we can revive the energy can balance. Feminine rises just as the Masculine rises wish it better things and be selective but you still decline nicely but protect your energy.
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Fakery just need to learn once they get tired they will stop and get bored but everyone needs love but need to wise up.
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Last day of Nov 30 and 31 days in to Dec in to the New year. Lets work on making pack to not allow to enter. Up to us to change it.
Economy & Inflation price rise health has went Wanka on the Masculine and feminine health.
Men will be Men when Women can be Women. Women will be Women when Men can be Men goes both ways. He/She/They we gotta love. The fakery are your admires wishing to get with you but they gotta grow some first.
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I found that seems to be someone keeps bother you makes new account or has a few just like back them they use to tease a gal cause they like you well you gotta put a lid on it. Just give them a good laugh find a new. Send Your dirty feet your clown photo make then run lets get go crazy prince song we both can play this game with out getting mad lets do it better. But if you can't beat them join them maybe they can change just takes certain someone to light up someone life. Not all is fakery but right timing.
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But can change some.
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You can ignore a message , Delete , Give them a friendly Answer It just does fly with me but wish you luck in the new year. If does shell right Well pizza guy order yourself a pizza cause this just not going to work out sorry but not feeling it. But block button if they can't get the hint.
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Cello Trance{for You} • Nov 30, 2024

I think there is a lot of people on this website that are very unsure of what they want. I've had a number of subs reach out to me that say they want to start a relationship and the next thing I know I don't hear from them at all anymore, many times in the same day. Most of the ones that do that I find are pretty young… In their 20s, that kind of thing. I think they're just looking around and unsure of what they want. I'm not sure if I've encountered any "fakes "… Or scammers. This website is very good at not having scammers which I'm very grateful of.

On the plus side, I have met so many wonderful, caring interesting people on this website. Marvelous people that I've started friendships with.

They're also a lot of people hurting on this website with illnesses, deaths of loved ones, failed relationships. We're all hurting. We all need each other. I try not to let the ones get me down that approach me and then ghost me.

Anyway, thank you for the post. It's very informative.