Obedience

Kelpi • Dec 5, 2024

I do not ask for something that has to be given. She will either give or not it is her choice not something that I can tell her to give. There was a sub who I had to earn her obedience. I had to show I was worthy of her trust and her love. Once that was done obedience came so easily after.

Cello Trance{for You} • Dec 5, 2024

I'm a daddy Dom. I'm more interested in the give and take, the dynamic. Making sure that her needs are met and she in turn gets pleasure out of meeting my needs. That's the way it works for me. Both people love and care for each other.

Personally, I think obedience should be a product of love… I know you're a Christian . It really is very much like what it says in the Bible

lambsone • Dec 5, 2024

@Bluebanana

Thanks for sharing those practical things. Thst's what I was looking for.

lambsone • Dec 5, 2024

@Sweetlydepraved

If it's not too personal, what kinds of things did your Daddy say to do?

Before he earned your obedience, what kinds of things did you choose to obey?

lambsone • Dec 5, 2024

@Kelpie

Once you earned her obedience, what kinds of things did she obey you in, if it's not too personal?

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 5, 2024

Dominance need to Master the obedient for themself out of love. then take on earning the submission when person feels safe and feels right and trust is their then the sub will have the Obedience to do so in return really owning each other when the time is right. Winning the submission but with the D. They need to be willing to put your heels on your feet rub your feet and carry you , and hold them , spank them , kiss their bobo's , feel stems and legs of sheer hose , eat her kitty cat please her and tease , they will be your kitten forever of Obedience. Keep them in Chasity and remote toy if you keep wining the the sub treat like the first day you meet. Sub will serve be under you even in sensory deprivation.

lambsone • Dec 5, 2024

@Cello Trance

What are the needs that you have that a sub when you have one, can meet for you? Only the ones you can talk about in public that is.

To address the Biblical aspect, God has laid out very definite parameters as to His expectations for our obedience. Obeying those parameters, is the way we express our love to Him. I guess in a sense that is His love language, how He recognizes that we love Him.

lambsone • Dec 5, 2024

@Softnote

Thank you for sharing some practical ways a sub can be obedient to their Dom. I suppose these things could carry over to male subs as well if fitted specifically to their Mistress/Femdom.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 5, 2024

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Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Dec 5, 2024

Lambsone, i think this truly is as long as a piece of string, and you do run the risk of prying into people's privacy here.

If you think about obedience, it's literally: i say, you do. I have always loved the saying, 'your whim, my obligation'.

In my experience, this ranges from the simple, 'stand/sit/lie there' to 'shut up' to 'wait' to choice of clothing, to the most depraved of sexual commands, 'I'm going to fuck your arse, then your mouth, and you will take it.'

It's truly deeply individual to any given dyad and what they agree is okay. Negotiation, discussion, consent are paramount. But those are really the only limitations.