Is Rimming The New Blow Job? A Primal Dom's Perspective

Is Rimming The New Blow Job? A Primal Dom's Perspectiv

MasterKnowsBestTO​(dom male) • Dec 18, 2024

I am a 46 year old primal Dom Daddy with over 25 years in the swinger and kink lifestyle. I am in Toronto.

Over the past 10 years I cannot tell you how many women have given me the pleasure of rimming my ass. Its something that I never experienced before that time. But lately, all my subs seem to enjoy it. I'm finding they rim as much as they do blow jobs nowadays. In fact, I have a special "chair" that I sit on while they lie down on their back underneath me so they can be comfortable and be able to rim me for extended periods of time. They love the "naughtiness" of it all.

I have a sub that insists on rimming me from under my chair while I watch a 2 hour soccer game and smoke my 420! She only stops at halftime!

DOMS - Are you finding the same phenomenon??

SUBS - Is this something that you are doing more often then before?

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Dec 18, 2024

Not more often. I'd say it depends on the dominant and what they like. Most dominants still have a special love for BJs, so that's what they get more often.

Arancia Mizzinmi​(sub male) • Dec 18, 2024

Speaking from below...

I think that while a male giving a blow job is emasculating and reinforcing of power versus none... rimming and tongue entry to a dominants of either gender is more humiliating and debasing. Especially with female dominants having my tongue inside their special rear truffle and bringing them to orgasm with my fingers and feeling them contract around my tongue is particularly shattering to any remnant of ego.

I have never been asked to provide a hand job to a mail dominant while providing analingus, but I believe it would be equally demeaning.

Also, I believe that analingus is more humiliating than providing cunnilingus or fellatio after a dominant urinates... though I believe directly taking the dominants full carry of golden nectar from the source is a stronger hammer than analingus.

Just my two cents.

- am

Steellover​(sub male) • Dec 19, 2024

As one who believes it's better to give than receive.... I LOVE it. Love the power exchange and humiliation aspect of it, love the taste and smell of it, and most of all, I love giving pleasure in a way that is empowering to her, sensuous and pleasurable to her, while at the same time, debasing to me.

Scarlett Sophie​(sub female) • Dec 22, 2024

I have yet to be with a Dom or Domme who wanted me to give them a rim job. I’ve always been curious about the experience, the humiliation of the act drawing me in.

So in my world, blow jobs and pussy eating still takes the cake…maybe someday I’ll get to give someone a mind blowing rim job

SayYesMaam​(dom female) • Dec 22, 2024

It's nothing new for me. I like it but it is like an appetizer. I require more. Tounge fuck me! Of course, I am only a receiver.

Arancia Mizzinmi​(sub male) • Dec 25, 2024

Sophie - having read your profile, you would probably love it.

As a general comment to the thread, I think there's some differential between face sitting analingus and queening stool analingus.

I'm gonna put out that face sitting is more intimate and enveloping, and in a long term relationship, more humiliating.

Meanwhile, using a seat with a gap is more abstract, and removes some of the intimacy. I think it's more humiliating in a scene with strangers or a professional, in an event type situation... something approaching Erica Jong's "zipless fuck". It isolates you as a device or feature of furniture.

I guess one more variation is forced versus voluntary, or consent in a relationship. Once, in a long term relationship with a domme, she booked a room and invited a male dominant for an evening in which I served them. He was a masseur as well and while giving her a massage, he grabbed me by the hair and shoved my face into her buttocks, ordered me to rim and go deep inside her special rear truffle. After opening the door and letting him with me in female fetishwear, corseted with trimmings and heels... then having to undress my domme significant other from my knees, followed by undressing him from my knees, then serving them wine and hors d'oeuvres... then kneeling ignored at the foot of the bed during their intimacy and the massage... to be dragged and forcibly pushed into her buttocks, then push my tongue deep inside to feel her contractions as he massaged her and brought her to a long slow orgasm was thoroughly demeaning. I was shaken and broken for weeks.

- am