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rsparks​(sub female) • Jan 15, 2025

Good afternoon folks. I hope that you are all doing well, and are happy and healthy. I am a 41 year old submissive female living in Texas. I have been in the lifestyle since the age of 19 with some bdsm and Gorean training as well as some vanilla relationships. I am looking for something real and long term, and for someone that actually wants to get to know me for who I am, not just what I look like. I am not interested in online play, online roleplay, or cybersex, sorry. It isn't possible for someone to control me from a distance and I realize that may be a challenge. However, it is nice to e-meet you all and I look forward to making friendships here if nothing else.

slaveJuliaTgurl​(sub femme) • Jan 17, 2025

Greetings, slave T-gurl Julia here, looking for dynamics service in BDSM as an iron collar slave gurl. Here to learn as i have been educated i know very little about dynamics, so i must learn and evolve and earn my iron collar, i appreciate everyone on this site as it is the most inclusive site i have found, the only friendly site actually for t-gurls that i have encountered. May the female spirit shine in everyone who lets her in. Take care, and have a wonderful day

sub Daddy​(switch male) • Jan 17, 2025

Hello!


I'm here because I have a fetish and want to share it with people but do not know how.... I switch role-play. Love to dress up in outfits and heels for both parties. Love a dominant woman that likes to submit.

Not sure what else to say.

Cheers

Aradia Nightshade​(other female) • Jan 20, 2025

Hello. I am new here and not new to the community. You can read my profile for more of an explanation, if you wish.

To save you the read though, I called myself "other" because I wasn't feeling comfortable with any labels just yet. I know I don't fit neatly into tidy categories. Back then, I only met a few doms I found intriguing and who made me really think carefully about a sub role. So there's that.

I'm open to platonic interactions with people, regardless of their roles. But I'm not interested in finding a dom or sub at the point. I find strong, genuine doms particularly interesting. I'm not sure why. But that doesn't mean other people aren't interesting.

Basically, I want to pick up where I left off and continue learning, with the difference being I'm not a single young lady anymore. In addition, I want to make sure that in my fiction writing, I'm accurately portraying the BDSM lifestyle.

I don't want to misrepresent myself or give anyone a false impression of what I'm looking for. Platonic connections and learning more are my goals here. I think honesty is best, though that doesn't mean people need to compromise their privacy. It's best to state you don't want to answer a certain question, rather than lie about it.