*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

rsparks​(sub female) • Jan 15, 2025

Good afternoon folks. I hope that you are all doing well, and are happy and healthy. I am a 41 year old submissive female living in Texas. I have been in the lifestyle since the age of 19 with some bdsm and Gorean training as well as some vanilla relationships. I am looking for something real and long term, and for someone that actually wants to get to know me for who I am, not just what I look like. I am not interested in online play, online roleplay, or cybersex, sorry. It isn't possible for someone to control me from a distance and I realize that may be a challenge. However, it is nice to e-meet you all and I look forward to making friendships here if nothing else.

sub Daddy​(switch male) • Jan 17, 2025

Hello!


I'm here because I have a fetish and want to share it with people but do not know how.... I switch role-play. Love to dress up in outfits and heels for both parties. Love a dominant woman that likes to submit.

Not sure what else to say.

Cheers

Aradia Nightshade​(other female) • Jan 20, 2025

Hello. I am new here and not new to the community. You can read my profile for more of an explanation, if you wish.

To save you the read though, I called myself "other" because I wasn't feeling comfortable with any labels just yet. I know I don't fit neatly into tidy categories. Back then, I only met a few doms I found intriguing and who made me really think carefully about a sub role. So there's that.

I'm open to platonic interactions with people, regardless of their roles. But I'm not interested in finding a dom or sub at the point. I find strong, genuine doms particularly interesting. I'm not sure why. But that doesn't mean other people aren't interesting.

Basically, I want to pick up where I left off and continue learning, with the difference being I'm not a single young lady anymore. In addition, I want to make sure that in my fiction writing, I'm accurately portraying the BDSM lifestyle.

I don't want to misrepresent myself or give anyone a false impression of what I'm looking for. Platonic connections and learning more are my goals here. I think honesty is best, though that doesn't mean people need to compromise their privacy. It's best to state you don't want to answer a certain question, rather than lie about it.

Villanelle​(staff) • Jan 24, 2025

Welcome everyone! Thanks for the intros

jillyvalentine​(switch female) • Jan 25, 2025

Hello! Just starting out exploring this side of myself. Nice to see so many people here!

Villanelle​(staff) • Jan 26, 2025

Welcome Jillyvalentine! Cute and timely name!

GIMS​(dom male) • Jan 27, 2025

Hello everyone, it's been pretty amazing to discover a place like this!
I consider myself a newcomer to the this, and I’ve discovered that I lean toward being a Dom with strong tendencies for control--to a degree that I want to own someone. This would take a huge amount of trust from both side, I look forward to find someone that could exchange this privilege.

kBAMtx​(dom male) • Jan 27, 2025

Hello beautiful people,

I am Bam, at least that’s what they call me, on the net and irl.. and just to answer before asked… it’s an acronym of my first three initials. Haha I get asked an exhausting amount about the origins of the name I answer too. Lmao.

I am from the North Texas area of the U.S. been in the LS for about 2 years now. Originally found FetLife and after some interactions there I decided to see what else is out in the world that is similar and possibly better as a platform for the purpose of finding individuals and even couples or groups that will assist me on my adventure of sexual exploration and, (sorta) as a byproduct, spiritual exploration.

Outside of this sorta pastime.. I am an avid guitarist and music creator. Writing is my true passion. I love sponging up knowledge and discussing what I’ve obtained with people of great intellect and philosophical minds. I seek wisdom and guidance from those endowed with it and I seek laughter and mirth from those who are much like me. No matter what it is ultimately love that I am after and I only see a path to said love by the vehicle of authenticity, shades that are a filter of introspection and discernment, fueled by passion and a thirst to understand what it is I observe. Anyway… I’m rambling now..

I am an open book. So don’t be shy to hmu. Gonna give it some time before I commit to a membership.

mr Seba​(dom male) • Jan 29, 2025

Hello everyone!
If I liked to dominate with my previous partner, but with the new one I like to submit more, is that normal? I don't have a split personality)
I'm a newbie and there's still a lot to figure out

Villanelle​(staff) • Jan 31, 2025

Great to have so many new people join us! Welcome everyone!

Don't miss our Magazine, particularly our 'Let's Get You Started' section which has useful info for those new to THE CAGE and/or BDSM. You'll also find answers to many common questions in our Help section. And of course, feel free to give me a shout if you need anything.