*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

mysterybrain​(sub male) • Feb 2, 2025

morning everyone, well at least it is for me.

i'm sort of new at this, sort of not - thats what growing up in rural australia will do for you. i started back when tumblr was big, moving from platform to platform just following what i like and chatting with like-minded people. still sadly living in middle of nowhere australia, though at least the place i am now has an airport... i haven't had much luck with actually meeting people in person, a two-hour flight to get to a capital city leaves little options, and most people in my local area tend to be the married with kids kind.

i've had a bit more luck with playing remotely (starlink - as much as i hate elon musk and anything to do with him - is a literally godsend and has probably ended up saving my life a few times), which leads me to where i am now. i'm experimenting with a new dom (we hit it off on bluesky, started with simple chatting about shared interests, before continuing further), we're currently still in our first week of him actually taking control. i'm not 100% sure of the rules here yet, so i won't go any deeper than that. most of my kinkier side tends to be with dudes, though i haven't really experimented much with women on that front.

beyond the kink side of myself, i'm half-way through university studying to be a doctor, i'm still in doing my bachelors, but this year will hopefully be my last, and if i get into med school, it means i can move full-time to a capital city. i've always been big into music (i have played the tenor saxophone for the last 12ish years, and take part in a couple university music groups. love the formula 1 races, and hope that i might actually get to see one soon.

Ashleythebisub​(sub female) • Feb 3, 2025

Hi,
I’m very new here; I have been interested in the world of kink for years. But once I had and left my first boyfriend, I realized the submission wasn’t something I just wanted to read about in romance books; over the last year+, I have been trying to learn and experience more but wasn’t sure about how to do that other than places like this which I wasn’t sure about using. More recently, I have been following some NSFW Instagram accounts, and, long story short; I had a very short online dom/sub relationship that ended rather abruptly. I need to find a way to learn more in a safe environment and find my limits and pain tolerance. So I came here after many Google searches led me to forums on this page, hoping to start not being stupid and putting myself in possible danger (online or otherwise).

NadineIrana​(dom female) • Feb 5, 2025

24 F4M from NYC seeking a online sub\slv around my age or younger

Hello, I'm new to this space and still getting the hang of the online world, but I have plenty of experience as a Domme. Dominance has always come naturally to me—it's part of who I am. I believe that the manipulation of the male mind is an art form, something you're born with and something that should be a natural trait. Just as a submissive should possess an innate willingness to serve, a true Domme knows how to guide and control with both strength and subtlety.
I’m particularly interested in those who are my age or younger, as I find there's something special about guiding someone with a fresh, willing energy.
additionally I'm in to psychological aspect of the domination such as hypnosis and mind control.
feel free to message me and tell me about you.

Villanelle​(staff) • Feb 7, 2025

Thanks for the intros! Welcome everyone

Princess Tiana​(sub female) • Feb 8, 2025

Hello,
I have been interested in BDSM since my teens. Looking for a Long term relationship with the right Dom. I prefer meeting in person and getting to know each other if we can’t do that in 3 months or less, I am not fit for you. Dm me to get to know me.

Peace and Love,
Princess <3

Bruised Bambi​(sub gender queer) • Feb 11, 2025

Hi everyone!
I'm not new to BDSM in any way, but I lack any online presence. Social settings really aren't my strong suit, but I loved being a part of a larger community while it was thriving in my area.
I'm looking for friendships foremost, but maybe along the line I can get involved in a new dynamic.
I really just love chatting about kink, it's all very fascinating no matter what angle you spin it haha. I love learning new things, too!

puppygrlcilla​(sub female) • Feb 12, 2025

Hi all ! I hope everyone is doing well

Figured I'd go ahead and make my post here to say hello. I'm not necessarily new to the BDSM world, but I am most definetely not experienced. I'm kinda just here as an outlet, and to explore, learn, and observe. I am not the greatest socially but I am always down to make friends and talk to new people! However, I'm not currently looking for a relationship or a dynamic/dom. ^^ I hope to post more and talk with new people soon !

introduction

tokyoghettopussy​(dom female) • Feb 13, 2025

Hello! 19yo fem here. im pretty new to bdsm although its always been something ive been into. It took me a few failed relationsips to realize that a romantic vanilla relationship was just not something i could force myself into. I came on this site because I want to try and live out some of my fantasies that I may not get to experience in the world yet. If anyone is down to help me learn and experiment or if you just want to chat feel free to msg me.

ScorpKing​(switch male) • Feb 15, 2025

hello i am Scorp
49 old submissive male, live in Dubai

i am here looking for friends and a lady to own me, control me and use me for her pleasure

Tboytoy​(sub trans man) • Feb 15, 2025

Hi! I’m new here!
I’m a trans masculine person with a natural pussy who loves being pinned and used. Hit me up to see what all I’m into