*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Villanelle​(staff) • Feb 17, 2025

Welcome to THE CAGE! We hope you enjoy your time here.

New slut owner​(dom male) • Feb 21, 2025

I am one half of a couple, quite new to BDSM. Me male, Dom. Her, female, super slut.

We are exploring the and experimenting with the different aspects of BDSM. Figuring what we like, what turns us on etc. Lucky for us we very much match. She loves the sub side and me the Dom side of it.

It is a fantastic journey so far.

Villanelle​(staff) • Feb 24, 2025

Thank you for the intro -welcome!

Playeron • Feb 26, 2025

Hello everyone I’m new here and very submissive looking for my soulmate and for friendship. I have been interested in the lifestyle for over 40 years. Any questions or suggestions just ask!

DominusCinerum​(dom male) • Feb 27, 2025

Hello everyone,

I’ve been registered on TheCage for a month now, and I’m finally taking the time to introduce myself.

I am "Dominus Cinerum," which translates to "Lord of Ashes," a name inspired by the Phoenix, the mythical bird that symbolizes rebirth through destruction. This metaphor reflects my own journey within the BDSM world, a path made of discoveries and renewal.

I am Dominant by nature and strive for mastery, though I do not yet consider myself a Master. I am in search of a woman who can fully embrace her submission, but also one who is on her own journey of self-discovery. I prefer not to separate my "vanilla" life from the one that allows me to fully flourish in this dynamic.

I have a personal vision of the terms Dominant, play-partner, Master, and submissive, which goes beyond simple labels. These are statuses that reflect deep relationships and exchanges where trust, communication, and mutual respect are paramount.

I was once married to a woman who didn’t know about my BDSM life. Out of fear of losing her, I never told her, and despite my love for her, that’s exactly what happened. It’s been two years since our divorce, and I’ve decided to continue walking the path that has shaped me since my youth, a path where BDSM has its rightful place, and where I seek to live it fully.

I’m here to meet open-minded people, exchange ideas, share experiences, and discover what is happening both within and beyond the borders of France.

LolaForceMe​(sub female) • Feb 27, 2025

Just a quick hello to all since I never introduced myself when I joined initially.

Seeking the thrills of life

Thrillneeder​(switch male)​{Loneliness} • Feb 27, 2025

Hey
I hope you are well,
I would rather stay annonymous, for I embarked on this journy that is considered unusual by many

As you may see on my profile I'm looking for a woman who is genuinely sadistic to be In a long or short distance Abusive Toxic relationship
It may sound odd and unusual,
If you do have anything I thank you a lot in advance
If not
I'm sorry for the inconvenience

Yours truly
A wandering degenerate

AceSubDC​(sub female) • Feb 28, 2025

Hi there,

I’m an asexual sub. I live in DC, and I have a typical DC political job and my boss is the worst and I hate it and I just want a break and want to feel safe and protected. I want to kneel and be told I’m good and get nice massages. I’m really only looking for someone local. And preferably metro-accessible.

I’m blind and autistic. The no-sex policy is non-negotiable. I straight up cannot tolerate it. I don’t like kissing. I don’t want to be naked.

I want a safe harbor. I want someone with actual leadership and gentle confidence to be a steady, calm, and soothing rock. I need someone to help me keep track of my personal life. I put all my effort into work and then keeping up with basic shit at home is like… impossible.

I’ll be honest, I have never had a relationship with a masculine human work out. I usually consider myself only interested in women. That said, I’m open to the concept of an asexual dude. I work in an extremely male dominated industry. I am usually the only woman anywhere I go. And I’m finding myself wanting to submit to men I work with. And I feel like that needs an outlet. Because I’m looking for leadership that I feel like I can submit to and… A) not appropriate for work, B) the people I want to submit to are men, which is confusing because I usually only feel safe with women, and C) I figure it’s worth seeing what’s out there.

Thanks for reading. I don’t even know if what I’m looking for is healthy or reasonable or any of that. Honestly I’m pretty vanilla except that most vanilla women especially are strictly into a 50/50 egalitarian relationship… and I just… I want taking care of me and helping me regulate to be something that my partner wants to do for me. And I want that vulnerability to be valued and desired instead of considered a burden. And maybe that’s selfish and maybe that vulnerability isn’t desireable and it’s just my own emotional labor that I’m trying to outsource….

But that’s what I want.

Villanelle​(staff) • Mar 3, 2025

Great to have you all here! Thank you for taking the time to say hello.

Fireblade​(switch male) • Mar 3, 2025

Hello there

I'm Fireblade (I've been riding a Honda Fireblade for a very long time that's why the nickname and no my blade isn't on fire atm. . .) and I never actually comment on these things but then again I haven't joined a forum in years so ill just say what I think and update as I go.

My journey in the lifestyle started with a older women back in 2008, she was my Dom and taught me a lot and gave me a good introduction into many aspect of the lifestyle and after that I've mainly been Dom, had a few slaves, pets and subs along the way until now (I've also dated outside of the lifestyle obviously).

I have a dominant personality in normal life, people that don't really know me would say the same thing (I've heard it a lot). I'm not really on here for anything specific but more just to chat with likeminded people as like I've said its been a long time since I've been on anything like this forum (and I must say they have improved a lot over the years so thumbs up to the dev team).

I'm a biker and have been riding since I was 9 and I've only joined one club and that's the club I'm in now for 9 years already. I love camping and being outdoors and I'm a qualified chef with diploma but I do a lot of things to stay busy.

I think that's more than enough for now haha, ill update again if i think of more to say.
Cheers and thanks for reading