Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

SubStanChill​(sub male) • Oct 9, 2025

Considering Reducing my stamina. The idea of being actually unable to last more than 30 seconds is very arousing. But I don’t know if I should go down this road. Not sure if there would be a way to go back if I change my mind. I’m married and although I haven’t brought it up with my wife, she doesn’t seem to mind at all when I don’t last long. Usually because we make sure she is already taken care of before I even enter her. Thoughts, opinions, ideas?

MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz} • Oct 9, 2025

I get it sounds hot but first step — bring it up with your wife. This is not your sex life alone. It takes two people to make intimacy work, so for heaven’s sake, please talk with her before you do anything permanent or experimental.

There’s a big difference between “she doesn’t seem to mind” and actually knowing how she feels. Sometimes a partner won’t voice their concerns because they don’t want to hurt your feelings or add pressure if there are ED issues. But that silence doesn’t equal consent.

If this fantasy is something you want to explore, it should be a shared discussion — one where both of you can be honest about what you want, what you fear, and what you might lose. Once you start physically reducing your stamina (through drugs, conditioning, or other means), there might not be a reliable way back (as far as I know, there can be depending on method but its still has complications if compounded with ED), and that could affect both of your pleasure and connection long-term. Your profile reads you are 35 you also need to factor in things like are done with have the idea of children and lowered libido

It’s great that you’re thinking deeply before acting. Just make sure those thoughts include her voice too — not just your fantasy.

MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}

SubStanChill​(sub male) • Oct 9, 2025

Thank you mam , I deeply appreciate your guidance on this. I would never commit to something like this without discussing it with my remarkable wife. At the end of the day I live to be the partner she wants and deserves.

Mostly, I wanted insight like that to consider factors before I even consider entertaining the idea enough that I would bring it up either way her. I don’t want to bother her with stuff to consider before I’ve consider it carefully. She has enough on her plate as it is.

Again, mam, thank you so very much, I deeply appreciate the guidance from an experienced Dom, and I especially appreciate you looking out for my goddess.

Respectfully,
Stan

Re: MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}

MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz} • Oct 10, 2025

You are most welcome Stan.

Darkquant​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2025

Can you actually become a prejac? I thought it was something natural that can’t be implemented.

SubStanChill​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2025

@Darkquant There a bunch of factors that can influence stamina, both physical, behavioral, and psychological.

Darkquant​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2025

Good to know, is there is way back it is something pretty arousing.

SubStanChill​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2025

@Darkquant , I think it depends on which route you take lowering it, how severely you reduce it, and then what options are available to you to remedy it.

You may use a conditioning method to lower it, but by the time you want to go back, you may be experiencing ED which compounds the challenge, and you may have a heart condition by then, so Medication might not be available to you.

But yeah, the idea of it is pretty arousing. And some Dommes feel flattered and powerful by turning their sub into a prejac. It’s as though they’ve ruined them for anyone else.

I never had an issue with it in my dating years, but now that I’m married the idea that if my wife left me, and I wouldn’t be able to satisfy any woman outside of BDSM again is terrifyingly arousing.

Darkquant​(sub male) • Oct 10, 2025

If you move forward keep us posted!

MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz} • Oct 10, 2025

https://www.hims.com/guides/prejac is great guide/starting point for those looking at exploring it or wondering WTF is that.