Cum play

Cum play

angelaffliction​(sub female) • Nov 14, 2025

Is it a thing? My significant other seems to be into it and honestly I am lost. It just doesn’t do it for me because I am embarrassingly grossed out by bodily fluids 🙊🙈🫣. But maybe if knew more about it, understood the fascination in it i could participate. I am more than willing to try something new a few times even if i am extremely uncomfortable. I also realize to my significant other it’s a very vanilla thing to do? The end

Miki • Nov 15, 2025

There isn't much to "understand" about bodily fluids. except that there's nothing embarrassing about being grossed out by them.

You can read up on baby batter since you refer to "cum" in your thread headline, but it is what it is.

What's most important is: After doing all you can to understand what it is and you're still grossed out by that shit, or any other bodily secretions for that matter, then tell your significant other that you're not into it, and that's a limit.

Don't force yourself to play along. It's never good if anyone has to force anything they genuinely don't like. It eventually leads to frustration and / or resentment.

Underlying resentments which can be mitigated by open and honest communication are the piss in the swimming pool of life.

TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos } • Nov 15, 2025

From a guy's point of view, it is a marking/humifaction thing. Same thing with pee play.

Now I understand not wanting to do body fluids. You can always draw the line at that if you like.

pioneer man​(sub male) • Nov 15, 2025

First let be up front with you: I have been a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for years, so I coming from that perspective. Whether it is my cum or her vaginal fluid, she decides what will happen with it.

There are a few things to consider when you're not sure if you might like something. If it is a hard NO, then you must talk to your partner and explain why it should be a boundary for you. Do it outside of the bedroom and calmly.

In your post, you stated, " I am more than willing to try something new a few times even if i am extremely uncomfortable." One of the Certified Sexologists we follow offers this suggestion: Try anything new 3 times - The first time may be uncomfortable or surprise you by how much you like it. Second time you are usually a little more relaxed because you know what to expect. If after the third time you don't like it, either make it a NO, or put it on the back shelf and maybe months or a year later you may want to consider tring it again.

Hope this is helpful.

House Talion​(dom male) • Nov 15, 2025

Its like marking their property. Cumming inside all your holes isn't enough so they love covering you with it

angelaffliction​(sub female) • Nov 16, 2025

This is a good idea the three times rule I think I will try this

pioneer man​(sub male) • Nov 16, 2025

angelaffliction: BTW: I should have added - Both of us have had experienced each other's fluids. She has had me cum on her and she has rubbed on me after I get her good and wet. Both of us have enjoyed the feelings of being "branded" by each other. As her sub, she has actually "branded" me and had me wear her in public - shopping, etc., anywhare except a doctor's appointment. It shows her ownership and quite frankly, it does make me feel more controlled in public.

One of my favorite sayings is, "Nothing is One Size Fits All". Give it a try (at home) if you feel comfortable, but never feel forced to do anything.

SubStanChill​(sub male) • Nov 16, 2025

Not too much to add to what’s already been said. The only thing that I think is worth remembering is to not feel guilty about shutting that door, especially if you’re more than willing to open and explore another.

Let’s say after you’re three attempts, you’ve realized it isn’t for you. If you’re nervous about letting your partner know, maybe be ready to present something new that you want to try. Just because you don’t like a certain game, doesn’t mean you don’t like playing with your partner.