I know it is bad form for a Male Dom to be posting in this forum and what you may think is wank material but hear me out please:
While plotting out a new story, I have a Domme with a female slave who has been bad. This slave's punishment is to down on each man in a long line. My question is whether a lesbian would think this is indeed a punishment or something that is not a big deal.
Now set aside the violation of making a gay person interact sexually with an opposite gender, the question is how much offence would the s type take?
Would be worse to give her the white box treatment while being used in ever sexual way by men, but doubt any decent domme would want such psycological trauma done to their property/ partner
Not "bad form" since you're asking for this group's thoughts and/or opinions on the matter, IMHO
What you didn't mention in the starter post is: Are either or both the characters in the story "dyed in the wool from Jump" lesbians, sometimes called "gold stars" who would want absolutely nothing to do with having men around at all ---except when absolutely necessary.
Or are they "L-Leaning BI". Those were the ones I ran across the most when I was active as that was how I rolled, too.--- That difference is all the difference.
A side note and strictly IMHO, the first scenario involving strict "Always have been" lesbians would be unrealistic due to the reasons I mentioned above,
Just let the story play out and don't get too much into details (you'll always find the devil in there) --and most readers would simply take the scene as you intend it to be:
Sorry it's taken me so long to reply-- the holidays and life in general get in the way of fun, lol. As a lesbian who's actually been in this situation I have some thoughts (hopefully not too late for your writing!). To anyone reading who may clasp their pearls at my boundaries around negotiation in relationships, I've done this a long time, learned from my mistakes and don't advocate for anyone to do the things I do.
I was with a dominant when I first entered the community at 22 who I was smitten with and would (and did) do just about anything for her because I didn't understand boundaries/wanted to please her/found most of it hot. One night we were out at a vanilla gay bar and I can't remember the exact context, but in order to do something I had to agree to give this (cis) dude a blowjob. It was something that we'd spoken about in passing but never negotiated (notice to others: I play under RACK and haven't and don't always negotiate each aspect of my play. Take that as you will), like "haha wouldn't it be funny if we made laura suck so and so's dick," and I would haha right along. When the real deal came up I knew that I could say no but in my head it would make an indelible mark on my relationship (again, I'm not telling anyone how to play/navigate relationships in this post, just recounting my experience), and it very well may have. We were heading toward an M/s dynamic and I wanted to prove myself.
So. Now that the scene's set, this guy came back to the playspace (she used to own the local dungeon in my town so we had easy access to the space) and it was such a letdown. I had built up the scenario in my head, was proud of myself for experimenting and trying something that made her happy, got on my knees, having no freaking idea what to do, and went to town like I would on a woman, figuring at the very least he'd get hard from it. Well, dude turned out to have a major case of whiskey dick and no matter what I did, under her tutelage, nothing happened. But I definitely gave it the ol' college try.
Now to answer your questions (and these are relative to me and my experiences):
I was not traumatized in the least. I was "ordered" to do something WAY out of my comfort zone, made the choice to obey, and was in no way, shape, or form messed up by it. In fact it made me happy that I was able to do that for her. I suppose I'm not the average lesbian answer, but I like to think that my experience and values fit in the context of your story. I don't feel any less a dyke because I chose to obey in that context. In the grand scheme of things it was a big deal in that I got a lot of attention for doing something that made her happy, and I suppose it would be the same in your story.
Would I think going down a line of dudes and sucking their dicks was a punishment? Absolutely. Mostly because I'm in my mid-40's now and getting on my knees is substantially more a challenge. But also it's something I fundamentally don't enjoy and that's what punishment is supposed to be, right? Again, since this is a story I imagine there is some leeway in the consent stuff and that the sucker knows what she's getting in to.
Anyway, hope this helps. Let me know if you are looking for anymore material.
Anyway, hope this helps. Let me know if you are looking for anymore material.
While, yes, it has been awhile since I posted about this, I am grateful for your reply! TBH, that writing has taken a back burner (meaning I have forgotten about it). However your experience is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for your grand reply!
Femdom women are often talking about punishing male sissy subs (open to Bi) with giving male oral. I don't think the premise is that different in a story context (said the bi Femdom)
Femdom women are often talking about punishing male sissy subs (open to Bi) with giving male oral. I don't think the premise is that different in a story context (said the bi Femdom)
And that is what I was thinking, but wanted some real time input.
One always hears about "forced homosexuality" (that is what we called it back in the day, yes I am old). Males on males and females on females. However, I can not say I have heard of a "forced heterosexuality'" Which got me thinking if such a thing has happened and what was the result.