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Servitwo Servitwo​(sub male)
3 days ago • Jun 23, 2026
Servitwo​(sub male) • Jun 23, 2026
I agree with everyone on this post.
Everyone has a good point.
Spotting the genuine people can be tough when the fakers ruin it for other people that are trying to trust and build a last foundation or relationship.
Master Drake Master Drake​(dom male)
1 day ago • Jun 24, 2026
Master Drake​(dom male) • Jun 24, 2026
I don't understand why they aren't just contacting their local BDSM club. Trying to train an 18 yo. kid over the internet is WAY beyond me. Good luck to the rest of you.
Steellover Steellover​(sub male)
1 day ago • Jun 24, 2026
Steellover​(sub male) • Jun 24, 2026
There currently is no local BDSM club in my city. Probably a true situation for a lot of people.
SavageLimerence SavageLimerence​(switch female)​{~Umber~}Verified Account
1 hour ago • Jun 26, 2026
SavageLimerence​(switch female)​{~Umber~}Verified Account • Jun 26, 2026
Master Drake wrote:
I don't understand why they aren't just contacting their local BDSM club. Trying to train an 18 yo. kid over the internet is WAY beyond me. Good luck to the rest of you.



Media literacy and intelligent internet usage is also declining in our youth. They lack the skills to find what they are looking for if it is not in the AI overviews of their search engines. "Go find a kink club" is not nearly so easy as it was ten or fifteen years ago, just because of how infantilized the internet has become. Wait, maybe sanitized is the right word, but both sort of fit.
intenseoldman intenseoldman​(dom male)
53 minutes ago • Jun 26, 2026
intenseoldman​(dom male) • Jun 26, 2026
Really? More subs? I guess if the sub:Dom ratio went up on the sub side, a dom could be more particular.
At any rate, isn't more membership on this site good?
I welcome change. It's refreshing to see something/someone new. I don't understand the scrutiny and resistance. Sure there's bots, fakes and the uninitiated not knowing quite what they're looking for and hoping for someone to show them... but that's always been.
So has the grumbling and complaining.
Have I noticed more subs and more "particular" Doms?
No, not really... not much ever changes around here.