Advice to the so called Doms

If someone is dumb enough to answer a message that reads what you said , is not using the brain he or she was born with .
So you got a letter from a total stranger, that reads, hey you sub be ready and hold your legs up ,I will be there in 15 minutes , Will you open the door ?
I am sure you won't open the door !
So sending a reply to that type of message , is opening the door for a stranger to come in .
I can't explain it any better !

⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ That right there is victim blaming!! How about you blame the asshole for being an asshole!

So, by your logic, replying back with "HEY! ASSHOLE! FUCK OFF" makes it her fault. What if it was rape? Using your argument, if a woman walks down the street in clubbing clothes, it would be her fault for anything bad happening because she could have parented it by not dressing that way.

Is that what you are saying? Because thats how it's reading.

If a message was sent to tell him to back off , that's no problem.
And then block him .
Just don't keep giving him the idea that's ok for him to bark orders by keep sending him a reply !
You keep sending a reply he will keep coming back .
Then it is your fault for keep getting his messages.
Just ignore him by blocking him .
Don't compare a woman walking on the streets with this situation.
Getting a message you still safe for not being confronted in a chat !
I am not blaming a woman getting attacked on the streets and don't tell me is the same as this situation we arguing about ,, because it is not , it is a totally different, synario ! A woman on the streets don't have this option !
To me, someone online in a chat group is getting an inappropriate message , has options, and is safe to block this idiot !
And if you are still talking to this idiot, then yes, it is your fault .

You dont want to admit ,that a sub on this platform is part responsible for letting a stupid so called dom sending a barking order .
Ignore him, block him and don't reply because you safe to do so .

Just take it in moderation. It’s the internet, take a deep breath. Some people want to see you jump and see how far you can go. Laugh it off. Come up with something as good and come back. Send some crochet boobs pictures. Really get you and them laughing! If they ask to cyber, send a link to a blow doll or a robot. Really get them laughing! Everyone deserves respect but temple not respected gate closed do with kindness if they can’t get the picture just sign off. No answer is an answer! No, still no. Thanks, but no thanks. Have a good day. Relax. You’re not marrying anyone. They can’t own you your human behind the screen still respect Log off and take a break. Keep doing your life. Come back later. They can’t read or get to know you. There’s nothing to continue. Some of them are new. Just try to help direct them and lead them on their way. We can’t fix everyone, and sex is great, but it’s not the thing. It’s a connection. Getting into someone’s mind and getting to know them takes a while. Seconds are the last things. They should be down to grow and have a bit more to say. Be a bit more creative. It ends on the conversation with a door shut. Keep on rowing your boat 🛶 focus on being you! But both sides of the stick brush it off have good day! Knowing can force a connection on you have to feel to both people so if don’t just wish the best sorry it but Happens but more fish in the see. Best connection happen unexpected not rushing not forcing. Don’t be in desperation just not gonna help you find right connection it will only get weird ones be careful. Grace and respect thy self. Takes 4 seasons get to know someone really about two people hold the key please each other. One person can’t do alone. But not all up to the sub to stop
It all the dom needs to respect earn a heart can’t just be given hard truth. But don’t submit to anyone on here be human keep vanilla at first don’t jump
In cause your hot save your self for someone who respects you
And honor it. Dear subs don’t say wanna give your whole life away think better time place for it but consent being sub meant to Keep your brain right one will respect you
Be the right match. Two people one can do it alone there not fair needs to be love trust , communication and care. You may wanna be dominated but think before you leap You need space time have friends and hobbies because you need feel safe mental health needs to be safe right hands. I found my person they never forced me we did a year he met me every month before anything. Don’t be desperate it won’t go so well do it right just saying and sharing. But be well feel the title should be brought til
Later until
You both reach good connection find say ever you but know needs call them Sir Or Master Right away don’t fall for it this connection comes first. Use your nick name be safe. Get emotionally invested before getting hooked both sides go by effect with blue prints not sweet words. Use your gut. Remeber you can say no any time. Be safe use your mind at all times speak up does matter just use you got a brain use it as it’s an attractive. Size is nothing how you carry it! ☀️😎

One person can’t do it alone when gets more two people need to come together be partnership you own each other! In together or it’s lost of trust.

Calmly said and cool !

Every Month or so, you see the same blog post, or Forum post dealing with the lack of good manners in how people are approached.

Every role and gender has their own brand of this.

Between Velcro Collar subs, Insta-Doms, Dims, Domasses, insta-subs and shit-stirrers… the male subs who piss off random women just to satisfy their humiliation kinks unconsented…

No one role or gender is to blame, as a switch I kinda get all of the trash in my inbox from all sides.

The *real* problem, is when the NO is met with “But why”. “Come on, just give me a try.” And other such pressures that forget that ‘No.’ Is a whole ass sentence.

Be an adult, and take accountability.

That's what I been getting to with the comments I posted !
To me, ignoring or blocking shuts the door to idiots and toddler types .
And to further engage with these ass wipes and wannabes makes them not want to understand and keep slurping the shitty habits they feeding on .
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