MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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5 years ago •
Feb 14, 2019
5 years ago •
Feb 14, 2019
I used to find it did nothing for me but then a few years ago things changed. I now use "animal play" as another tool in my arsenal.
I had (we have now parted ways) a very stoic sub that in all aspects was wonderful match but when we played he drove me to despair. He was part of my poly family so it was important to me, as was he. He was a quiet player. I like noise. Groan. Moan. Yell. Scream. Grunt. Get primal. beg etc! This sub just wouldn't open his mouth, no matter what I tried. After three years, I was ready to give up even though we matched on just about every other topic. I even tried asking him to just fake it for me LOL.
In desperation, thinking I could maybe...at least, make him laugh. I tired puppy play. My logic was, if he would actually laugh, I could push the point, he didn't 'die' doing so and it was fine with me. To my surprise, I got grunts and groans and even some guttural sounds on a very primal level. We continued this style play for a few times a week.
To my surprise after this, he had no issue with making noise of a deep down primal nature. He found animal play allowed him to open up in ways he had never imagined. By depersonalizing him, it give him, self permission. It was "ok" for an animal to make noise, that some how changed his thinking and actions to the core of him. I now use it (animal play) every so often with other subs when 'communicating' is an issue. I've found I can also use it to remove words..when I have a mouthy sub. sometimes you just need to look at things a different way.
edited to clean up format cell phone added
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