Being Naked

Being Naked

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 19, 2024

It's easy to take off all your clothes and have sex.
People do it all the time.
But opening up your soul to someone,
Letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams......

Now that is being Naked

What are your thoughts? Please share.

Cello Trance{for You} • Dec 19, 2024

Absolutely that is the biggest struggle and it is also the The Pot of Gold at the end of the rainbow. To let someone into your crazy, lonely, hurt , world, and they into yours? That's the true meaning of love, the true beauty of the universe.

We can be naked and by ourselves all the time., And we are. Hell, , in the warmer months, I sleep naked. But I am not always emotionally spiritually, and mentally naked in front of another

Now, what I'm gonna say I'm sure not everyone agrees with, and that's fine. I am always naked in front of God. God knows all of my fears, worries, doubts, failures… He knows all the things that I have trouble opening up to others About. So there is that.

Thanks for the topic

PrincessLemon​(sub female) • Dec 19, 2024

I 100% agree. Lol sex a lot of the time is just sex. Hook up culture is real and big these days.
So to me sex is just sex until you add intimacy. Becomes something else- something more.

Buuut that’s just me 😪

I'mME • Dec 20, 2024

Naked Soul.

That is the ultimate goal in an authority exchange relationship.

To be completely relaxed, to share my deepest fear, my silliest dream.
Someone who understands 100% that look on my face, my silly jokes, who enjoys me , looks forward to hearing and seeing how I may surprise them .


NAKED.

Susie Q{Daddy Ant} • Dec 20, 2024

I believe that many people think they have seen my soul, but they have not. I’ve learned to give enough that it FEELSrgat way, but my soul ~well that is shared with very few. I’m ok with that. Some things need to be sacred as I feel a soul is one of those. It’s not saying you can’t be intimate with someone without baring your soul. Soul mates are few amd far between. Feeling absolutely safe and free from any judgement or shame ~ that’s a gift and happens so rarely.

Naked ~ tis overrated sometimes. Many times I’d rather take my clothes off than reveal the depths of my soul.

lambsone • Dec 20, 2024

Physically: I live naked in my home, except for indoor shoes. (I am Diabetic and the soles of my feet are very tender because of it so I have to wear shoes with good soles.) I started doing this due to the request of a Dom I belonged to last year and though the relationship didn't work out I kept up the practise.

I keep a jumper by my door to throw on if the doorbell rings. I'm so used to it now, that sometimes I have to remind myself to put something on when I need to go outside. I've come close to stepping outside naked before I've caught myself ... hahaha. A few people in my neighborhood close by watch me like a hawk so they would get a good show.

Personally: I am typically a conservative and private person and I need to warm up to someone before I feel comfortable sharing anything with them of a serious nature. In a group of people I don't know, I am usually quiet and reserved. I do a lot of observing instead.

I am not one to typically reach out and make others feel comfortable or draw them out. It's rare when I start a conversation in an environment that I'm not familiar with unless it's in one of mutual interest.

However I am working on being more friendly. I've discovered that it just takes a smile to open up a conversation with a stranger, and that I don't have to protect myself emotionally quite so much. It doesn't cost anything to smile at someone, so I have begun to smile at others when I pass by them instead of looking elsewhere.

But the deeper depths of me is a different story. No one gets to see the deeper depths of me unless they are a trusted friend. Someone who I know can keep their mouths shut and protect what they know. And even then I am picky about what I share.

I've also discovered that if there is something that I don't want anyone to know, then don't share it at all. Even trusted friends have moments of indiscretion no matter how much they want to keep someone's secret. (I have blurted things out without thinking myself and hurt others.) In times of their own sickness or distress, they may blurt something out because they are at the time consumed with their own needs and problems.

In spite of how much I share with this group, there are still things that I don't share. Most people here would never understand and would be highly offended if I shared the depths of my spiritual being, so I don't. It is a good and beautiful thing, but you will never see it in all that it is.

My deepest thoughts and opinions, I will keep to myself. Some of these things I will never share with a Dom if I should ever have a permanent one and even if they've earned my trust. They will get a lot of me but not all of me. I don't expect that I will get all of them either.

The only person who will ever know all of me is God Himself because He knows more of me than I even know. In fact He reveals to me who I am as He slowly works on me to bring me more into alignment with who He is. And He's been doing this for years.

So I personally have come to believe that transparency and intimacy can be relative in accordance with who we are around, who we trust, the context of our surroundings, and the time of life we are in.

We are each very complex with many layers. Even in our own lifetimes, no one will know everything about us, not even ourselves.

DomRonC • Dec 20, 2024

Opening one's soul and getting to that level of intimacy (that I think more want but few achieve) takes time, while sex is what it is ... sex. Not until a level of trust, respect and honesty is developed, getting to the depths of one's soul, sharing secrets that one is only comfortable in sharing at that deep a level, doesn't happen overnight. When that level is finally achieved, it takes the relationship to a far deeper and satisfying level. An emotional and mental connection is developed at level that is not superficial and surface-level sex.

I'mME • Dec 20, 2024

@DomRonC

Damn,
I thought the forum question was metaphorically written, but after reading ppl's answers, maybe it wasn't.

Oh Well.

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Dec 20, 2024

Guys have a hard time dealing with metaphor. Forest/trees kind of thing.

I'mME • Dec 20, 2024

@Topeka,

But some ladies answered the question in the physical.

I was pointing out that I may have misread the question, after seeing everyone's answers.

Lmao, maybe I can't see the forest 'fer' the trees. 😂