Spanked to tears

subs loved to spanked to tears daily!!

realfreakydad​(dom male){NO} • Jul 18, 2020

acquiesced​(sub male) • Jul 18, 2020

I don't like to be spanked, but accept it under the right circumstances. However, I was wired wrong at the factory. Upon the first few paddles, I begin to laugh almost uncontrollably, which pisses of the Spanker thinking I am laughing at them, which makes the situation quickly turn to tears.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} • Jul 19, 2020

"subs loved to spanked to tears daily!!"


Says who????

You are generalising and that is NOT fair. I am a sub and I cannot stand to be spanked daily and NEVER to tears. Stop lumping everyone together and start actually treating people as unique individuals with unique, individual nuances!

Miki​(masochist female) • Jul 19, 2020

He should have put the word "Some" in front of that "headline".

I can't otherwise contribute much to this thread as I'm a masochist.. A (no pun intended) "subset" of the submissive half of the BDSM dynamic.

My eyes might water up, especially if a paddle is used, but I have never cried. I get off on that stuff.

"Unique individuals with unique nuances" That's a great way to put it.

Bunnie • Jul 19, 2020

@ acquiesced,

“I begin to laugh almost uncontrollably,”

So do I!
I suppress it as best I can because obviously no one is going to take too kindly to thinking they’re being laughed at, however, sometimes it just comes from nowhere, so I just don’t have a chance to catch it. It’s not that I’m laughing at *them*... it’s just a response I seem to have at times. We must’ve been wired at the same factory lol.

Toy4Dom76​(sub male) • Jul 22, 2020

being owned by a sadist for 8 yrs i can attest to crying,i love it,live for it,shedding precious boy tears knowing you are suffering to allow Her to express herself......YUM uncollared now 3 yrs and it seems like an eternity since i have been used hard enough to cry.

tallslenderguy​(other male) • Jul 22, 2020

i feel like i don't have any masochist in me, at least on a physical level? i sometimes wonder if that didn't get conditioned out of me because as a sub child (and i can see retrospectively how both sub and gay i was as a kid), i seemed to attract bullies left and right and was always being physically abused. i theorize that i was attracting immature doms who also didn't yet know their self or how to express their dom nature, but who knows?

Spanking, though i have never been spanked as an adult beyond the few smacks on the ass from a Top, it is a tentative desire for me. But different from most descriptions i read.

For me, the D/s dynamic is thoroughly connected to a Dom's need/desire to affect, influence, put His 'mark' or signature on or in me, ownership.... sorry, got a little excited there. my fantasy spanking is always with His hand. The idea of having His hand print on me is very appealing. The other is i always imagine the spanking as a seductive process. i don't like or want pain, but i am turned on and fulfilled by pleasing Him, so that can be used to influence me. The seductive part is some spanking porn i have seen where the spanking is an affectionate event. The Dom speaking affectionately the whole time, even comforting, petting and soothing between spanks. The affection, comfort, petting and soothing, done right, would seduce me into taking... probably, wanting the spanks in between. "Tear" for me would be similar to having my Dom's hand print on me. i could see how this could be a huge mind fuck.