I'mME wrote:
Miki wrote:
... My "contact list" is empty. I fly by the seat of my pants in here, figuratively speaking.. These Out of the Blue appearances in either Bond or sometimes my Inbox are often from men I never contacted before.
Not a big deal, just strange.. and such ambushes are fewer and further in between... maybe they check out profiles more often.
No big deal.. Thanx
Miki,
You are on others contact list.
So people can add others to their "contact lists" without asking them if it's cool? Not that it bothers me. I'm not in here often and when I do log in, it's not for long intervals. Just curious. After all, dick-slingers whom I never met in here before pounce within 5 seconds of me logging on... Does that mean I (or anyone) can be added to contact lists without ever making contact?
Enquiring minds want to know!
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As for someone (If I go back to get the usename I'll have to write all this shit over again) who said one cannot mention "other sites" on the forums. Well I have seen plenty of mentions of FetLife.... But the context usually is that FetLife is not quite the same as Cage. Same clientele but different overall experience.
Anyway I have seen it, whether it was later zapped by management or not I cannot say. I just know I won't go on that other site because I don't need to locate the next munch or hook up with any Online creatures.
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EDIT: As for "those same ten dudes" appearing Online, yes, as Solace wrote it could be an improper log-off, or a phone. I do not access this place anywhere but from my PC in my home. Definitely not into the phone scene.
Also there are some who actually stay online and set the site into the background. I guess there are notification sounds when a message arrives. In that case they make Cage the active window and read whatever came in.
... and still, months after this thread was started, even with a full and proper logout, including clicking the "Continue" button after log-off, I looked at this site (after clearing all cookies and relaunching my browser) -- and noticed I'm still listed as "Online" for about 3 minutes.
*sigh*
M