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6 days ago •
Dec 15, 2024
roughandtumbler wrote: I did not in any way think you are being mean, ugly about your mate. I gathered from the OP how much you like, respect, love him..
I don't know that weight would get many rejections. I mean read their profiles, should give you a clue bc ppl in that game are usually descriptive. Body, age doesn't matter. Or only certain ages. It's a quandary for sure. I am a straight forward person. I would ask him directly, what is the problem. We discussed, you were on board, now I'm twiddling my thumbs, what changed. I get the feeling, now hear me out. I get the feeling that maybe you present it in a way that you consider to be respectful, I get that. But sometimes, we have to change our language up. Like dirty, so that the other party pops into their head. No pun intended. Do you know what I mean? I was blunt with him. Explained that the kink had died, that I felt disconnected and unhappy. Now I’m getting the silent treatment because he feels rejected. The only way this all works is if I’m a subservient slut sub who serves his every need. He’s so happy when I do that and I was happy for a while, too. I was able to control it all through sex and servitude. But now I’m seeing that it’s always going to be that. Me serving him. Being a toy that he picks up when he wants to. It’ll never morph into anything else. He didn’t care about kink. He doesn’t want to share me. So I can continue with the charade and he’ll be happy or I can blow it all up and call a spade a spade. Considering my options. I don’t want to live a miserable life but at least it would be an honest one.[/quote] I'm beginning to get a better picture. By YOUR description, he seems a bit selfish. Silent treatment gives me an even better picture. I don't care who says what from what side of the slash, the silent treatment is BULLSHIT. Your situation really involves more than the lack of kink activities you desire. |
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