Hookups

Hookups

Emmalyn​(sub female) • Jun 12, 2023

Is it possible to have a bdsm hookup? Like I know you need to build trust to have a whole dynamic but my life is to busy to have a full relationship right now. I just want a hookup but the vanilla sex I get from guys on tinder just doesn’t do it for me.

lemoncake​(sub female) • Jun 12, 2023

Girl that is exactly where I’m at :\

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Jun 13, 2023

that is such a great idea!

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Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 13, 2023

Don't listen to the guy with the white beard and pipe.. BAD Santa!


Note: I am more L than bi..

Steellover​(sub male) • Jun 13, 2023

I have, with a couple professional female dommes, and while it was fun and satisfying "in the moment," it didn't really satisfy the longing I had for lasting companionship and love.

Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 13, 2023

Any time Honey..

If you're still here look me up in Westen MA

If you're down!

ControlYourHole​(dom male) • Jun 13, 2023

I can see situations where this could be enjoyable & beneficial- for ex a Dom meets a young sub who’s traveling or only around briefly, she’s into something that not super extreme or requires experience (like simple bondage, DD/lg role play but she’s not a full-blown regressing little, etc), and then they have their fun. I see nothing wrong with that, I’d probably go for it if I like her. BUT would extreme pain play & humiliation, ultra-realistic kidnapping/rape role play, or DD/lg where she’s literally gonna feel like you are her Daddy long-term work well in a hookup? Maybe if detailed agreements (and for CNC an actual written contract) we’re made by experienced subs, but otherwise I’d feel like I need to know them better. The more physically or emotionally impactful, the more I wanna know her well first. Just my 2 cents, peace to everybody?

ControlYourHole​(dom male) • Jun 13, 2023

On this note I wonder how easy finding BDSM-friendly people on tinder is? I WOULD like a playmate while my sub recovers from a Bartholin cyst (she knows & supports it because she wants to do threesomes once she’s in less pain), but I also don’t know if most tinder girls in the area I live in (near one of the biggest “party schools” in America) would even consider most really kinky stuff or be terrified as fuck?it’s frustrating when you really like the unicorn sub you’re getting to know but she’s far away for the near future?

trappedperhaps​(sub female) • Jun 13, 2023

I def think it is possible you just have to find the right people. & it feel right

Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 13, 2023

Second thought.. No

Online shit.. A roll of the dice.. Snake Eyes means the potential of meeting the next Ted Bundy

Do Not Risk It.. Stick with people you have known a long time.


Trust me.. I won't elaborate, but the reason I am "idle" is because I almost met .. Never mind. High Risk at the hands of a "nice guy"