Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

lambsone • Sep 24, 2023

Thanks for sharing your experience bondagelatexbunny.

lambsone • Sep 24, 2023

Very true Miki.

Notely • Sep 24, 2023

Yes Dom to respect your requirements of after care.

But for your own health and Safety have a doctor look at those legs and knees if they are getting bruised too easily, it could be medication or you might need the right nutrition and rehab. Doctors are not really checking these things like you gotta say something as they use to. Age happens but not to get on you but as a nutrition specialist just saying. Please put yourself health and well being first and Dom should respect those needs also.

I'mME • Sep 24, 2023

**Mainly as they have gotten old, it becomes more of service than as physical play.**


This is complete rubbish. If this is standard male thinking, it's no wonder why there is a constant theme on older Doms profiles of wanting specific aged subs. (Younger).

The year is 2023, people are living longer than ever, we have more health knowledge than ever but in BDSM, we should put our physical needs to the side and only serve.




Women our age enjoy the journey of sex more, we bring more patience, we are not self-conscious about laughing, we have life experience which can not ever be substituted.

lambsone • Sep 24, 2023

Thank you Avonlea. I am well monitored by health specialists, thank goodness. As of yet I haven't had a need to share with them any details of the lifestyle that I would like to engage in. But for the past month, I interacted with a Dominant online and we used a dildo, butt plug, rope, and clamps to play. If the relationship had continued, I would have definitely addressed a few things with my doctor as to safety, etc.

lambsone • Sep 24, 2023

Thank you for your input I'mMe. Last month I had a Dominant who was not afraid to work with an elderly sub who was almost 10 years his senior. It took him awhile to convince me that I was beautiful. But he gave me confidence that I could still play with the best of them and treTed me as he would any other sub. And he was very patient in guiding me through different issues in play. He did a lot for my self esteem as a person and as an older submissive. I'm thankful for the time he spent with me.

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Sep 24, 2023

I think it's about giving yourself permission to experience all the pleasure you're capable of. It starts with beliefs you have about yourself, admitting to yourself that you want these things, and being willing to lay aside the inhibitions that might be holding you back. Don't believe you're capable of certain things and incapable of certain things because of your age. I'm not saying ignore your limitations. I'm saying don't add limiting beliefs on top of that to hold you back. I hope that makes sense.

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Sep 24, 2023

I think it's about giving yourself permission to experience all the pleasure you're capable of. It starts with beliefs you have about yourself, admitting to yourself that you want these things, and being willing to lay aside the inhibitions that might be holding you back. Don't believe you're capable of certain things and incapable of certain things because of your age. I'm not saying ignore your limitations. I'm saying don't add limiting beliefs on top of that to hold you back. I hope that makes sense.

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Sep 24, 2023

I think it's about giving yourself permission to experience all the pleasure you're capable of. It starts with beliefs you have about yourself, admitting to yourself that you want these things, and being willing to lay aside the inhibitions that might be holding you back. Don't believe you're capable of certain things and incapable of certain things because of your age. I'm not saying ignore your limitations. I'm saying don't add limiting beliefs on top of that to hold you back. I hope that makes sense.

Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female){Owned} • Sep 24, 2023

My skin will be thinner eventually which means more bruises from less impact but there are many other ways to experience pain. I may not be able to kneel one day with my body but I’ll kneel in my soul and that’s all that matters to us. However, Daddy and I are going hard up until the moment we die. That will hopefully be by choking me on his cock for my last breath.