Steellover(sub male)
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1 month ago •
Jul 24, 2024
1 month ago •
Jul 24, 2024
Short answer is no.
More detailed answer: Perversion is when your sexual desires get so out of your control that they impact other people around them.
Or, any activities that, as explained, involve others who can not or will not give consent.
For example: Jerk-off instructions and edging while in private is not perversion. Sitting in your car masturbating while watching women play tennis at the park- that is perversion. Being tied up and flogged by your dominant is not perversion; there is consent involved. But walking up to a stranger you are attracted to and asking them, point blank, hey will you tie me up and flog me? That person will likely be freaked out, and thus, it would be considered perversion. Clothed female/naked male scenarios (or vice versa) in the privacy of one's household is not perversion. Walking around wearing a raincoat with no clothes on underneath and "Flashing" people, exposing yourself to them- that would be.
In all those instances, the common denominator is exposing your kinks to unwilling bystanders who would not be okay with it. Why would anyone do this? When their kink drive gets the better of common sense, common decency and common dignity, it devolves from "kink" into "perversion." The key is, BDSM is not perverted if it involves consenting adults. Otherwise, it crosses the line.
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