Blow jobs and breathing

Blow jobs and breathing

angelaffliction​(sub female) • Mar 5, 2025

Ok so back story to start I had some shit happen when I was younger and was forced to give a blow job at a very young age. Since that happened I have never given blow Jobs as it brought back bad memories, anxiety ect. Recently within the last 4 months I have been giving my partner blow Jobs and have been enjoying them. It’s taken years of therapy and self growth and being able to be sexually comfortable with my partner and he was never one to ask for one or pressure me to give him one which I’m turn has helped with me wanting to give them however I can’t fucking breathe 😂 I try to breath through my nose stay relaxed and I’d say I’ve gotten quite good at them but I don’t know maybe it’s his size? But my nose is even closed off like the pressure from him being inside my mouth makes it feel like I have an incredibly stuffed up nose and I can barely breathe through my nose. Now I’m not sure if it’s position as usually he is lying in bed and I am on my hands and knees so he can play with me while I give him one all that being said I’d greatly appreciate advice. I’m please and thank you

Bunnie • Mar 6, 2025

I always forget to breathe! Lol
It’s tricky but you can time small breaths in there if you create a bit of a rhythm (but I do still do that through the nose).
*Also… just pull back and lick the tip and use your hand when you need to take a moment to get some air 😊

Miki​(masochist female) • Mar 6, 2025

As written above.. don't take any more in than you can breathe with.

I was lucky enough to start giving head early and I was not forced to...

(that you got past being forced to at an early age, which is rape at any age, actually, -- is a credit to you more than written words can adequately convey)

So as I started to say, I started out a little at a time and eventually I was able to get past my gag reflex and to full-on DT. -- but that is not for everyone.

But about breathing, I found it easier on my knees and upright rather than with the dude on his back. But of course you enjoy being pleasured while you work the wanger-- so mine is just an idea.

Otherwise take a deep breath, humm the hammer, and pull back as soon as you want to catch your breath.

Alternately, you can always do a slow stroke job while catching your breath, keep him with a ready rod but not so fast so as to make him squirt his special sauce and then have to wait while he reloads.

House Talion​(dom male) • Mar 6, 2025

Like I tell the inexperienced ppl, practice with ice pops

tips and tricks

SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~} • Mar 8, 2025

It is a lot of trial and error learning both of your bodies and rhythms.

Practice can be fun though, and a light hearted approach can help with gaining power and comfort over the present emotional context of the act.

Take it in slow and see exactly where the point of lost breath is, measure with your hand or fingers where that point is. Once you get a good handle on where your breath/no breath point is, take the deeeeeepest breath you can just before you hit your no breath point, and test your depth from there.

i personally have a reverent view of giving head, exploring and taking my time. The journey to the end result is the focus for me. (as opposed to getting face-fucked, which is not my cuppa)

It's very early for me, and i probably should have waited to gather my thoughts better.

Looking up cock-warming might have some breathing tips too?

i might add more when i get more functional.

Good luck!

Zoneinlingo​(neither female) • Mar 9, 2025

Anything going down ones throat will cut the air off.

Timing is key. When he pulls out, breath.
Size could be a issue. It would take longer to breathe. Lol

Personally I have a bad gag reflex and struggle with this also. Just practice. My man has no complaint on me practicing. Just saying.

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Mar 9, 2025

There is breathing going on down there?


So I probably shouldn't be pinching their nose shut when I am balls deep in someone's mouth huh.

Bunnie • Mar 9, 2025

😂

Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female)​{Claimed } • Mar 10, 2025

You don’t try to breathe through your nose, you hold your mouth open wider, still navigating up and down the shaft but with the corners of your mouth kind of stretched open and get your breaths in that way. Apply pressure with your tongue or sensation with your tongue by flicking it. It’s not as good as actually breathing but once you get the hang of it it’s fairly easy to do. This is also helpful during facefucking.

If you’re not being facefucked you can take breath breaks by slowly and lightly licking up and down and around. The mix of sensation between sucking and licking is something they typically like. When it’s time for a faster pace just do the above explained mouth breaths.