Who Pays: Sex Toys

(Didn't really plan on a whole series of "Who Pays" but since the first one worked out so well, I thought I would try another)

Over time, I have come across the problem of who buys the sex toys for a given relationship. Now in most cases, I will buy my own tools: Floggers (well those I didn't make), blindfolds, gags, and what not. However, there have been times when the s type will demand (which is funny but more later) they pay for some of the toys.

Now I get it with insertables (dildos, anal plugs, and sometimes gags) and I have purchased those with the intent on leaving them with the s type when things break up.

Have you had this argument in a relationship and if so, how was it resolved?

That is actually a good "series" come to think of it, as dynamics are different as are each individual's approach to seemingly everyday things. Differing ideas make for a good discussion. I'd even go so far as to consider a "Who Pays" thread for general household stuff. I have strict expectations for ass paper of all things, but there are plenty of other things that may be very similar, but couples have an amazing ability to debate the littlest things. Alas my response to such a query would be fairly boilerplate. When a pair both has incomes, it's nice to split costs or take turns buying. And of course not a "who pays for" thing, but the well-worn and weather-beaten Divorce Court battle: "Seat Up or Down when done with the Crapper?"

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Now for the Featured Question:

I can only comment in the hypothetical because I was never in a relationship of any kind, and "weekend wonders" didn't count as far as I was concerned. But I have a roommate and sometimes those scenarios can be similar.

Rather than just write a silly "Refer to Question 1" remark, of course I'll put thought into it:

I'd rather pay for my own toys, and the dominant can pay for theirs. It's only fair. "Insertable" toys aren't really "one size fits all" and in that space I'd want to pick out and get what has worked for me before. If something works well, why change it?

On the other hand, if I wanted to experiment --- that is try something with a bit more of a "zip" to it----- and it doesn't work out, then that's on me.