Help for a newish Dom

My partner and I enjoy BDSM but we want to incorporate what is essentially play at the moment into a lifestyle and are struggling with how to make this work. I am mistress and am looking for any advice on how I can keep j under my control 24/7. Not into making him do chores etc

What are you doing now to incorporate into a lifestyle. Orgasm control and chastity are pretty easy to incorporate into everyday life.