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*** I am the real deal and who I am isn't reflected very well in text only.  If you like what you read here, I will insist on a call or meeting sooner.  I thought I clicked with another person and spent too much time here, getting behind on my store and products coming into Mother's Day.  I won't make that mistake again, and will likely be off of site for a while. ***

I'm a 6 foot tall, white, 50 yr old that is trying to find a woman or slave to serve me as I serve her. I'm intelligent, respectful, driven, successful, confident without being cocky, and naturally dominant. I have expectations and want to ensure that we have a clear understanding. I know my role as a Master in protecting, providing, and caring for my pet, as she should know her role in caring for me.

I have been considering and believe that a free-use type submissive would or could also fulfill my needs.  I don't necessarily need a slave, so  someone that is open to play, will allow me access when needed could suffice.

If you're familiar with Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, only one thing is listed on there twice, and that is what I'm trying to be sure is taken care of for me.

There are a couple of appealing aspects in a 24/7 M/s TPE that I'm looking forward to.  First is having someone genuinely wanting me, being satisfied, and not being distracted due to need.  Second is that I would be completely open, not fearing judgement for thoughts or desires that I can express to a slave.  Third is the lack of conflict that Western women bring to relationships with entitlement and narcissism. 
Much of this can be found in the third world and died here due to feminism.  As much as women can be and live how they wish, I can use my freedom of choice to find someone here or go to another country.  Much of my searching has been Eastern Europe and Southeast Asia, with a minor dabbling in the Middle East.  I love Thai, Cambodian, Czech, and Saudi women.

I think of the M/s relationship simply as an egg.  The Master is the shell, being tough and protecting the egg from everything outside and keeps it moist.  The slave is the egg that keeps the inside of the shell healthy.  Without each other, the shell becomes brittle and the egg dries out.  I am the shell, the egg has very little need to know or worry about anything outside of the shell and it simplifies life.  I'll take whatever beating the world gives me to protect my egg.

I see my slave as a 'treasured object', that I do not want to risk breaking. I also don't like to punish in anger, it should be measured and controlled.  My slave should be available for use at any time, place, and in any manner I dictate.

I want to be worthy and trusted to the point that my slave can remove all limits and will obey completely.  The respect I give is to the act of submission and when given, then I take control and become Master.  I want to find that special woman that never wants to have outside worries, deal with finances, bills, maintenance, or anything other than me and the home.  The better my slave cares for and serves me, the better I can reciprocate.

Nothing that would cause any harm or require medical attention, nothing illegal.  No animals, scat, blood, or anything extreme. Limits need to be discussed prior to engaging.  A sub that says "no" too often.

In self-reflection, I have found that a free-use submissive could be just as satisfying to me and maybe allow for more possible candidates.  Being open, playing games, and still allows me to be my dominant self without the level of control.

Oct 13, 2024

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