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Rell88bkdom male
New York, United States
Rell88bk
Age
35
Relationship status
Single
About me
****UPDATE TIME****AS OF 5/23/2024*****
So much has changed since I was last on here. I’ve lost some friends and family members along the way. My mental, emotional and spiritual health will always be more important. But going through that journey and the healing process taught me more than I could have ever imagined or expected. I’m here once again lol. To rebuild my inner circle with people whom no matter what your personal title is or how you want people (whether in this lifestyle or the general public) to see you. I would like for my new inner circle be filled with open minded and open hearted people. If you decide to be intimate with someone in or outside of the circle. Congrats. Keep your couple issues between the two of you because I’m not going to stop talking and being friends with either of you. That’s my only disclaimer (for the moment. More to come). With that being said. If you do happen to read this. Please know and understand. I live in a no judgement, be yourself and enjoy living your life mindset. If that’s not for you. Ok. If it is. Welcome and let the good times roll on.
Oh, one last thing. Kendrick Lamar buried Drake.
I've always liked being in control. Even though I'm very easy going. Which has thrown some people off after getting to know me.
[ Update as of 08/11/2020 ]
Since joining this site. I've been to three munches and have spoken to dozens of people on many different topics involving our lifestlye. It's all been worth it and I wouldn't change it for the world. It's given me a new perspective not only on our lifestyle as a whole. But, the role I play in someone else's journey. I will say this though. It has helped me in my own journey. Even though I still talk to everybody with the same respect. I now take the time to read someones profile as if I'm studying for a major exam. Reason for this is, if your trying to get someones attention. It's best to use the things that they put out there. It's your golden ticket to then ask for them to either clarify on it or ( in my case ) figure out how they got to that point. As time goes on you'll be able to know if that person meshes well with or if your up for the challenge of helping them continue to grow.
So much has changed since I was last on here. I’ve lost some friends and family members along the way. My mental, emotional and spiritual health will always be more important. But going through that journey and the healing process taught me more than I could have ever imagined or expected. I’m here once again lol. To rebuild my inner circle with people whom no matter what your personal title is or how you want people (whether in this lifestyle or the general public) to see you. I would like for my new inner circle be filled with open minded and open hearted people. If you decide to be intimate with someone in or outside of the circle. Congrats. Keep your couple issues between the two of you because I’m not going to stop talking and being friends with either of you. That’s my only disclaimer (for the moment. More to come). With that being said. If you do happen to read this. Please know and understand. I live in a no judgement, be yourself and enjoy living your life mindset. If that’s not for you. Ok. If it is. Welcome and let the good times roll on.
Oh, one last thing. Kendrick Lamar buried Drake.
I've always liked being in control. Even though I'm very easy going. Which has thrown some people off after getting to know me.
[ Update as of 08/11/2020 ]
Since joining this site. I've been to three munches and have spoken to dozens of people on many different topics involving our lifestlye. It's all been worth it and I wouldn't change it for the world. It's given me a new perspective not only on our lifestyle as a whole. But, the role I play in someone else's journey. I will say this though. It has helped me in my own journey. Even though I still talk to everybody with the same respect. I now take the time to read someones profile as if I'm studying for a major exam. Reason for this is, if your trying to get someones attention. It's best to use the things that they put out there. It's your golden ticket to then ask for them to either clarify on it or ( in my case ) figure out how they got to that point. As time goes on you'll be able to know if that person meshes well with or if your up for the challenge of helping them continue to grow.
BDSM and me
Up until joining this site. I've done some light bdsm. Handcuffs, rope play, a little choking once. But, I'm ready to dive deeper into bdsm with somebody that's also new as well.
Limits
Over the top people.
People being rude.
Not knowing how to read.
People being rude.
Not knowing how to read.
What's new
Covid-19. SERIOUSLY STAY SAFE.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
99% Degrader
99% Sadist
96% Master/Mistress
81% Owner
66% Experimentalist
63% Primal (Hunter)
52% Daddy/Mommy
51% Ageplayer
49% Exhibitionist
45% Non-monogamist
37% Voyeur
5% Boy/Girl
3% Vanilla
1% Brat
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
99% Degrader
99% Sadist
96% Master/Mistress
81% Owner
66% Experimentalist
63% Primal (Hunter)
52% Daddy/Mommy
51% Ageplayer
49% Exhibitionist
45% Non-monogamist
37% Voyeur
5% Boy/Girl
3% Vanilla
1% Brat
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch
Update date
May 24, 2024
Member since
Mar 23, 2018
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