Often as a submissive I feel kneady. I feel like I demand too much of my doms attention. I miss. I crave. And I try my best to restrain myself from being too full on lol. It has taken me a little while to realize this is not a curse but a blessing. Only when with the right person. With a person that craves me as much as I do them.
After a conversation in chat I felt there was a side point to this dynamic that is often looked over or not even thought about. All of us in chat were in agreement how important it is, but i thought it was worth sharing here too. That is the feelings of my Sir. It is a grave misconception that a good strong dominant is emotionless. That they feel nothing. I have found that it is the complete opposite to this. Someone who says they are not effected by yr attention or love is not worthy of it. Your presence should affect them plain and simple. If they do not communicate this is a big red flag for me now, after learning that the hard way. They should be open and honest. With the right person a sub should be able to break through her doms walls and they should be just as attention hungry as you. The need to feel wanted and loved is not one sided. To be in a D/S dynamic IS a relationship. Yes life can get in the way but do not forget to let those near you know how important they are. Whether they are your dominant, your submissive, your slave, your family or your friends. Everyone likes to feel appreciated
