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Just my random thoughts as I try to learn and grow
5 years ago. September 25, 2018 at 11:12 AM

Is it possible to know a good match from the first conversation? Without knowing what eachother looks like but by simple conversation.

I'm sure we can all relate to knowing whether someone is NOT suited by the first few words they might speak. But it has me questioning whether the same is applicable in reverse.

I have had a few times when from the start the conversation flowed easily, the giggles and small flirtatious comments. The fact you smile when you see they have replied to your message. The little warm and fuzzies.

Can you're heart know before your head analysis the absolute crap out of every angle to find some clause that confirms they are no good and you talk yourself out of it. Out of even friendship.

Is it simply about being open???? Being sure of what you want and being able to recognize it instantly. Selecting the one in a sea of many.

This is purely hypothetical but I would love to hear your thoughts.

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - I think it is possible to have an immediate, strong attraction to someone from the first conversation. It’s the ones that follow that tell you if the person will be right for you. I’m notorious for jumping into a situation without taking time to view it from different angles. It usually doesn’t end well. Time...it just takes time.
5 years ago
CapnRick​(dom male) - It has happened to me--that 'just right' feeling from the outset.. Remarkable, and rare, but entirely possible....though being slapped in the face by some ugly wannabe is certainly easier to recognize!
5 years ago
Missub​(sub female) - I can say that it is most definitely possible. It happened to me with Master. My heart was immediately connected to Him. Though I will admit that I was in denial for a bit before I couldn’t deny it anymore. I love Him with every ounce of my heart! ❤️❤️❤️
5 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - I believe it’s possible! You make a connection right away and it all seems right. It’s where I’m at. We haven’t met yet and can’t imagine what it’ll be like when we do, well yes I can. Lol And being open I think helps tremendously, no games but honesty and truth. Take the risk. I did!!! Best wishes ❤️
5 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - I believe it’s possible! You make a connection right away and it all seems right. It’s where I’m at. We haven’t met yet and can’t imagine what it’ll be like when we do, well yes I can. Lol And being open I think helps tremendously, no games but honesty and truth. Take the risk. I did!!! Best wishes ❤️
5 years ago
Panthers70​(dom male) - Yes Starlight82 it certainly is...
13 years ago I met my now sub on an online chat, I asked her if I could ring her and talk person to person and for some reason we hit it off immediately. I didn't know what she looked like but over the months of talking to her each night we formed a relationship that is still strong today. It took us both awhile to exchange photos of each other but it didn't take anything away from what we had started.
13 years is a fair time to be together in today's world...yeah in answer to your question you can know, myself and my sub did.
5 years ago

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