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My journey with my husband/Sir as we navigate our way into the BDSM lifestyle.
5 years ago. March 18, 2019 at 8:45 PM

I have experienced some wonderful things here. At one time I considered this a home. A tribe. Too many negative experiences have tarnished that feeling. Today....I’m done. I have never experienced something so betraying or violating. 

A private conversation was screenshot from another platform and was shared on here via a link to another public platform. My words and my face were used without my consent.

I have been very careful to only share my face with those I trust. That has been violated.

Shame on me for thinking sharing in a private group was safe. Shame on them for thinking sharing private conversations, names and images without consent is okay. 

While the blog with the link was removed and the screenshots taken down (from the reports or the person remains to be seen), the damage is done. 

I have wondered why I continue to stay here. I rarely participate. Now...I think it’s time to move on. 

To add insult to injury, I’m to blame for refusing to choose sides of two people I cared about, that I caused the fallout. Because I chose not to participate in childish behavior, it’s my fault. Just wow. 

No one deserves to be treated this way from either side. 

Bunnie - Wow! That is so utterly disappointing. I’m so sorry this happened to you, Red. I’m not aware of any of whatever it was that’s gone on, but I do know how much “your tribe” means to you and how much this betrayal would be hurting *hugs*

Luckily you have your awesome Sir to be your rock.

It will be sad to see you go completely, but most of your group have moved on from here anyway, apart from a few stragglers who are still in the trap of wishing it was still how it was. From what I’ve observed in my flitting here and there, it’s actually relatively drama free here now, which is nice... mostly just newbies encouraging each other and growing together. Interestingly, the only drama really only ever seems to come from the old group (yes, myself included).

Anyway, as much as change can be scary, sometimes it’s a good thing. I wish both your Sir and yourself a beautiful journey together, wherever it may take you :)
5 years ago
Redtailedkitty - Thank you, Bunnie. I know we haven't talked much lately, but I've been following along. I've chosen to focus my energies elsewhere for awhile - trying to take a break from all the drama here - poking my head in every so often on blogs and forums.

Sir has been incredible, as always. And so have some others.

I'm on the fence about staying, to be honest. Not to "create" drama or "seek attention" as some would believe. Truly weighing the positives vs negatives of staying. Is it still beneficial to my growth or more harmful to my well-being. I honestly cannot answer this right now. And so I remain, until I can answer that. ;)
5 years ago
Hisproclivity​(sub female) - Wow, Red that is heartbreaking. I cannot imagine your disappointment. I am here girl.
5 years ago
Redtailedkitty - Thanks hon!
5 years ago
Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - Damn girl, I don’t have words for this. I’m so sorry this happened to you lady. *hugs*
5 years ago
Redtailedkitty - Thanks, Mags!
5 years ago
Miss Tia​(sub female) - I'm sorry that this happened to you.
As one who had their past Master show off personal pictures....I know that feeling of complete betrayal.
5 years ago
Redtailedkitty - I don’t “love” it but there’s no dislike button! I’m sorry that happened to you.
5 years ago

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