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My journey with my husband/Sir as we navigate our way into the BDSM lifestyle.
6 years ago. December 4, 2017 at 12:56 AM

Damned if you, damned if you don't...

I want to stay. I love my new-found tribe. I don’t want to lose that or give in to the bullies. 

I want to make this a better place for all of us. So that no one feels they have to leave because of the drama, the bullies. 

I am wary, but I am hopeful. 

Please forgive my moodiness and insecurity. 

Thank you for my loves and my friends that are helping me through.

For showing your love and support. 

You have no idea how much it means to me. 

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Uh oh. Please don’t go, I’m just getting to know you ?
6 years ago
Redtailedkitty - I'm trying DD. :)
6 years ago
Frewin​(dom male) - What is this about?
6 years ago
Redtailedkitty - I updated it Fre. :)
6 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - I hope you quickly push through this & find it within you to stay here (theCAGE).
Hugging you right now (((((Red)))))
6 years ago
PetMaster​(dom male) - There are a lot of people that appreciate your input into this community, myself included. We hope you stay.
6 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - It is a shame, but there are bullies and judgmental people everywhere.

Unfortunately this place, this haven, where people who need open mindedness and acceptance the most, can also be subject to it. I’m not a fan of people who feel superior to others for whatever their simple minded reasoning is. I’m working hard on myself, trying to learn about all aspects of this very...very wide world of BDSM/kink/insert your term here. There are so many different roads that branch from the main idea. However can anyone think their way is the only way, especially as thoughts and ideas evolve?

I hope said bullies will take a good hard look in the mirror and fix themselves, and come to the realization that maybe...just maybe...despite their “experience”, they could stand to continue their education as well.
6 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - It is a shame, but there are bullies and judgmental people everywhere.

Unfortunately this place, this haven, where people who need open mindedness and acceptance the most, can also be subject to it. I’m not a fan of people who feel superior to others for whatever their simple minded reasoning is. I’m working hard on myself, trying to learn about all aspects of this very...very wide world of BDSM/kink/insert your term here. There are so many different roads that branch from the main idea. However can anyone think their way is the only way, especially as thoughts and ideas evolve?

I hope said bullies will take a good hard look in the mirror and fix themselves, and come to the realization that maybe...just maybe...despite their “experience”, they could stand to continue their education as well.
6 years ago

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