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My journey with my husband/Sir as we navigate our way into the BDSM lifestyle.

Be proud of your scars...

6 years ago. March 29, 2018 at 10:45 PM

In chat just a few minutes ago Centipede brought up that we are all Japanese teacups. I had no clue what he meant and he brought up the art of Kintsugi. Which reminded me of this wonderful video.

Be proud of your scars...it's what makes you who you are...and you are beautiful.

Have you ever heard of Kintsugi? It's beautiful. When the Japanese mend broken objects, they fill them in with gold. They believe when something has suffered damage and has a history, it becomes more beautiful.

Looking at your scars in this way is a wonderful way of looking at life. Be proud of who you are and wear your scars proudly, they can and will make you stronger!

Devil's damsel(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Mine are all on the inside...I’m full of gold ?

6 years ago

añoroYañoro(sub female){No} - Beautifully said...I wear mine proudly as many others do. It is up to us how we view and wear them. We shine brightly as gold maybe more so?

6 years ago

ric840147 - This is such a beautiful way to deal and look at our broken selves.
I hope that when I look at others as well as my self, I can see the gold.

6 years ago

Bunnie - This is so beautiful ?

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SchrodingersDinosaur(switch female){N/a} - This made me cry, Kitty. I've never heard a better way of describing the journey from brokenness to being whole again. I think this may touch many of us. Thank you for sharing. - Henna

6 years ago

Redtailedkitty - It did me too. There are several video that describe what it is but his version really touched me. I truly believe this. No matter the horrible things that we have been through makes us who we are now. Burying it, hiding behind it, trying to eliminate/obliterate it only makes those scars deeper. Embracing our scars makes us stronger.

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NiccyKitten(sub female){Owned} - This video brought me to tears! I couldn't possibly be happier being where I am now and who I'm with now. It took me a long time to learn this life lesson and become what I am today, and to see it put so eloquently and beautifully was truly moving. Eventually, I realized that because of the pain I've suffered in the past I wound up next to my Domme, the true love of my life. Thank you for sharing!

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