I am technically pansexual but I have never yet been with a guy even though I'm in my 30's!
Why? Simple more then pansexual I'm demisexual which means I need a deep emotional connection with someone before I view them as a sexual partner.
The only guy I even attempted with was my best friend J who I knew for 15 years first and we ended up not having penterative sex and I view even attempting it with him as a mistake because it hurt our friendship.
Why when I have been clear about this do I keep getting men coming at me sexually especially right off the bat?
You might argue well you mentioned fantasies with a guy thats true but that would have to be one special guy for me to attempt with and as of right now I am father from believing thats a thing as possible.
Additionally switch means just that I'm not a sub so if a guy wants to be with me unless your open to me chaining you to a wall whipping the shit outta you then fing or plugging your butt and having you down on your hands and knees collared worshipping me as the goddess I can be then don't bother! I am not a sub and in most aspects of my life I'm an alpha female that has an intensity yet sincerity that blows people away.
I have thus far only dommed people and have been curious about exploring something different if you have a problem with that not being my idenity good move along.
I'm tired of having to say the same thing every few days.
