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1 year ago. January 28, 2023 at 10:37 AM

Watched the video below hit me in the feels. A mother pleeding for someone to validate her son. He was picked on for wearing black nail polish. It gets replied to by someone telling an anecdote about them getting picked on.

 

My reply -

 

From a young age I always felt this was our one chance at life. Even if reincarnation or some other afterlife theories were true I had no knowledge of it being as such.

 

Thus this is it, my moment my life the only one I'm likely to ever get. 

 

With the stakes being so high everything I do needs to be imbued with the utmost authenticity. Many people exist but I am the only me. If I won't share that with the world and stand up for my right to exist I would have failed to live up to my potential.

 

At my work today I had a manager at one point ask me if I could tone it done and be less hyper. I said this is who I am I have ADHD and I'm naturally hyper and excitable. 

 

They then said well you can bother people sometimes also you seem like you wanna be the center of attention you stand out too much. 

 

I replied are you going to give me a written warning because I am going to continue to be me and when you do write me up id be glad to challenge that your discriminating against someone with a "disability"

 

 

 he then said do you think the world should revolve around you.

 

My reply "this is the Anya show my friend your not even part of the supporting cast. I will always and forever will be myself you and this company will just have to decide if they want me because believe me someone will." 

 

Never compromise yourself not for a moment. With the limited time on this Earth you should only invest your efforts into you're best interest whatever it is no apologies or explanations required. 

 

https://youtube.com/shorts/xfHkTNUtSAM?feature=share

Zhivago - Such interactions need to be documented. Video what your boss is saying or you can record the audio. Then email the file to yourself which puts a legal time and date stamp on it so it can be used in court if need be
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - You make a good point i did talk to a couple of other managers about it without making a formal complaint so they know about it at least.

I would just rather not be bothered then have to go to HR and do the whole thing but realistically If i have to fight i will fight!
1 year ago
justcurvysub - I am so sorry you were treated that way at work but damn you are great!! Seriously lol I mean the way you stood up for yourself. I just really admire that. Really though that was very inappropriate and disrespectful the way you were spoken to specially in a work environment. You could always make a report to HR if your company has a HR department,if you ever feel it's necessary ofcourse. Thank you for sharing this post😁
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - Yeah he was some like insecure Asian dude and I understand sorts where he is coming down they have that the nail that sticks up gets hammered down sorta bullshit.

But this is America! I was born in the Bronx I'm a loud mouth Italian who speaks with her hands and don't ask permission for shit.

He might think of me as unruly or maybe a distraction but like 99% of the people I work with and for love my personality.

I don't understand why so many men waste so much time trying to cage confident women.

Hey thanks for the support nothing but love
1 year ago
MrMarlley - I love confident spunky women. And I say never let someone put you in a cage.
I actually got fired from a crappy job for my disability. I went to my boss and made a resonable request. I told them the problem I was having with my disability and asked that I be able to stretch out from time to time in order to be able to keep going. Two days later they put me on forced leave of absense. They threw me out of the building and said I had no choice. Then they sent me a letter saying that if I don't return to work they will fire me. Boy, did they change thier tune when I took them to court. Anyway, stick up for yourself. Absolutely. Never let anyone push you around and make you feel bad about who you are.
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - Thanks mister how are you now.
1 year ago

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