Dominating From The Heart

My journey to finding the most perfect Domme/sub love life.

What size do you prefer?

4 years ago. November 9, 2020 at 5:51 AM

Why are so many subs so argumentative and rude?

If I am asked for my opinion, why are you assuming I am lieing?

So three men asked the same question and I gave the same answer, and all three went a-hole. "What size do you prefer?" My answer is and will always be it doesn't matter. I have had good experiences from all sizes and terrible experiences from all sizes. There is no way I will ever say a big dick is the only good one, just because a few did better than the worst man I ever had. In fact some of my best lovers were small. But for almost reasons these three short cocks just can't accept that answer. So yes I have one really good 7 inches. But I had three better 5 inch boys, because they weren't trying to stab me to death but rather did what I wanted. And other 7 inch boys were horrible.

So these three short cocks got all offended and basically hounded me but couldn't accept my answer. One went so far as to imply I lied and that I really prefer larger. All three said they needed a one who wanted larger man or they wouldn't be able to perform well. They would not be able to be with a woman if they couldn't be forced to strive to be bigger.

Have we really passed the point were good sex is enough?

Am I crazy?

Mama Bear JJ(dom female){koa} - I mean no disrespect to small, referencing length and/or girth, cocks ... but I'm the size does matter camp. Bear with me though while I explain why.

As my name implies, I'm a juicy girl even before reaching the point where size comes into play. If a cock is too small when it comes to length and/or girth, I can't feel a damn thing. It has nothing to do with size necessarily, and everything to do with all the natural lubrication going on ... nothing I can do to change that lol. I know many women that have the same issue. So for me ... larger and length with average to thicker girth, or average length with thicker than average girth, is essential for me to enjoy sex and have the potential for a vaginal orgasm. It just is what it is.

That said, I also know many women who don't care about size and would answer the same as you. There's nothing wrong with that. If "it doesn't matter" is your honest answer, and you have gone beyond that to explain why, then it is their issue and they should probably work on why a woman not caring about their size matters so much to them.

4 years ago

Steppenwolf62(other male) - Definitely not crazy, some males' whole world revolves around their penis. I relish being caged anyway.......the tease is far better than an orgasm. I can only apologise for some of my fellow males.

4 years ago

WhatamIfightingfor(dom male){CurvyB} - First question no, and for serious relationships, still no. A medal without a competition, is just a piece of metal, and a hollow victory.

The second, if you are asking, no. Asking and working on it means your are quite sane.

4 years ago

PrevalingMaster(dom male) - Nope - not CRAZY at all ....funny that Men should focus on their partner’s desire to please and connect with them. That makes a better lover/dom than the size of one’s penis,. Look Im a guy and that we should rethink our definition of sex, as penis-in-vagina sex isn’t the “gold standard” of sex; oral, anal, and any other way you and your partner touch or penetrate each other is what we want as Doms and Subs -- yes? “When we have a broader definition of sex, we open ourselves up to a lot more pleasure,and the most popular dildo size is what ??? - 4 INCHES! - so there!

4 years ago

OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} - First - some science. A vaginal canal is only 4-5 inches deep, it can be longer when aroused (up to 10inches).. but that is only if you want to smash the cervix... as someone who has an IUD... you DO NOT want to smash the cervix... there is no pleasure there. xD

Second - More science... The Gspot is only an INCH in... 1 only, the end! the tricky part... think "UP" so you can have a micro penis.. literally... to do your job right.

Next... don't these sub boys know they they are going to be in a cock cage most of their life xD I mean... you don't want to be *huge* in that instance. Just saying. People put way too much thought into size.

I have also had both instances. If I wanted thick, I would still be there... honestly... it gives you lock jaw. Not fun, not even kidding. Same with Cerix smashing, not fun. Though I can agree with juicy that feeling when literally gushing, is rough on sensation and feeling T_T

4 years ago

Mama Bear JJ(dom female){koa} - Hehehe me gushing, never 😇

It's actually somewhat ironic that guys literally gush (pun intended) about how naturally ... messy ... I am, but fail to realize how much of a detriment that can be when it comes to what they are working with or even what toys they use on me for that matter lol. When it comes to either, I can't get off where a lot of women without my issue could easily.

Niagara Falls isn't going to feel a person in a barrel going over it, just saying 💦 ... and yep, I just compared my pussy to Niagara Falls, so now you get the full picture 🤣🤣🤣

4 years ago

OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} - Such is the curse of always being ready to go. Sometimes you are TOO ready to go xD lmao.

4 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - You're not crazy Miss....a man confident enough with whatever his size is...knows himself to be better or great in ways that have nothing to do with size. If a woman is often well pleased...the question about size is all relative. 😀

4 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - Hello Miss...I do want to add that those who want to feel or believe you to be lying... may very well have trust issues. Perhaps they know themselves as untrustworthy, so they assume others to be likewise. If a man can't believe in your word, then how can he realistically believe you to be in charge, were you to say that to him.
Well...I do hope that you and your loved ones have a pleasant season of Christmas. 🙂

3 years ago

chubbyslaveboi - I am about 3.5 myself. I've had women and doms both who destroyed me about my size. Any confidence I had about it (which was very little to begin with) just ripped away. A lot of women (at least to me) acted as if it was my fault I was that size. So I do understand where the three guys are coming from, when you've never had a women be honest about something all men take pride in, it's hard to accept. But I also get that you were honest and I've read your entire profile, just from that alone, as a submissive, I feel a bit of trust towards you. Sounds strange I know.

3 years ago

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Dominating From The Heart

What size do you prefer?

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